I can tell you do not live in Los Angeles :
The median sales price for homes in Los Angeles CA for Jul 15 to Oct 15 was $640,000. This represents an increase of 0.2%, or $1,000, compared to the prior quarter and an increase of 11.3% compared to the prior year. Sales prices have appreciated 80.8% over the last 5 years in Los Angeles.And I hear you, and it is the path you decided to take for your life. I doubt that you are less capable that the uneducated 21 year old kid I mentioned before. If you are really tired of your life come to Elko and work for the mine. Job sucks but at $80K/year high school degree starting job and living in a double wide you'll rack up money quick. Double with your wife as a heavy equipment operator at $33/hour. Suck it up for 2 years and get the boost you need to jumpstart again. Hell, go overseas, Blackwater (actually AAR) hired me in 2010 at $678/day 2 months on, 1 month off till my wife said "Nope, u ain't going".
I myself started in the US as a straight wetback.
Ammo probably remember meeting me on my way to L.A. with everything I owned packed in a old Licoln town car. I arrived in L.A. with $60 in my pocket, that's it man ... that was 2001. I started by looking for work at Home Depot parking lot with the other wetbacks. I eventually decided to leave L.A. because I didn't want to live in a $400K toejambox or rent a crappy apt for $900/month. I figured out for that price I could own a house in an another sate.
An old time friend is living in the L.A. basin in a $500K house, pays $2700/month mortgage, housing taxes are $6K/year, 4 kids. He is nearing $100K/year, his wife works 2 part time jobs and he is nearly bankrupt ... well duh. I'm so much wealthier living in N. Nevada in a 200K property, $1100 mortgage $900/year property taxes, 5 acres, no kids (well a horse

), and I can afford a new truck payment hands up.
I met a veteran in Cali that rolled in a $106K Corvette Z06. I asked what he did for a living. He was in the military for 10+ years he said, then was a worker in an assembly line. He said all his life he wanted a Corvette and lived frugally/smart enough to afford one once he retired.
If you want it bad enough, anyone not disabled during
his entire lifetime can save $200K. Everything else is excuses.
(no offense to you Snail, you are well respected, it is not directed at you but merely a different point of view).