Neither. I had nothing to fear. Girls loved to have me meet their parents.
I am the oldest son from a notable small town family and the parents I met, of course knew my parents. I was a good kid , did well in school and after graduating two schools (high school and vocational school) I got a real, decent job and had money in my pocket.
I was "the keeper". It was always the girls themselves that decided where the grass was greener.