"look at me I am making a derogatory remark to the OP"
You could just keep fighting for your lives and try and shoot the opposing guy down rather than trying to find a way to game the system to avoid giving a kill.
If you think you are having a 1v1 in the Main Arena, your SA has failed you.
once you are in the radar circle of a friendly base if you manage to crash land and not kill the pilot you will get the ditch even if you were shot up.
For those of us playing this game for well over a decade, Aces High is more of a social club. The game just provides the framework. I keep logging in for the people and Pipz was the kind that you keep coming to meet again.