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Offline Maverick

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Significant life event agan.
« on: June 08, 2019, 12:35:32 PM »
Hi there. It seems when I have a life changing event I end up talking about it here on the O’Club. I mentioned more than 20 years ago when I was getting engaged, then married. I also talked about the cancer my wife had and was fighting shortly thereafter. I also announced that I was leaving the game in 04 because of the cancer and that our someday was right freaking now, not in the future. I then let folks know when we settled down in TX in 17 and continued monitoring the board.

Now got another event. Last week I left to go to the funeral of a good friend, fellow Motor Officer and Private Pilot. He made a mistake on his bike on the way back from DC where he attended the annual Law Enforcement Memorial activities. This time the mistake, like many we all make when driving cost him his life.

Last Tuesday I headed back home a 2 day drive. I no longer do 12 hour marathon drives. I spent the night but woke up with a disturbing situation. Blood in the urine, a lot of it. I decided I had even more motivation to get home so got a quick breakfast at a truck stop and hit the road. I stopped at the first rest stop to off load the coffee. That’s when I had an even more disturbing issue. The plumbing, MY plumbing, wasn’t working anymore. Made the next exit and returned back to the city (El Paso) and hunted down the first ER I could find. The doc there heard my story and installed a catheter (Foley) and drained me. He looked at the results and told me this was an indicator of nothing good. What was in the bag wasn’t pink, it was dark brick red. He agreed that I was good to go to get home but said I need to be in an ER ASAP. Getting a catheter installed while you are conscious is no freaking fun at all especially if you have scar tissue from a previous surgery like I do. Having a couple younger pretty nurses do it was no help either.

The drive was uneventful other than being rather painful. It’s hard to sit in a confined firm chair for 7.5 hours with a tube RIGHT THERE. When I got home I crawled out of the car and ate a sammich the wife made for me. Then we headed for the ER. We got there at about 7PM. We left at 1 AM. The Doc there ordered a cat scan and came back telling me I had a mass on the left kidney. She had consulted with a Urologist who told me to call his office in the morning. I slept maybe 2 hours and called him as soon as the office opened. Saw him the same day. He looked at the cat scan and confirmed a mush ball sized mass on the left kidney. He said it had been there for years and was likely why my previous doctor had given me a diagnosis of chronic disease (microscopic amounts of blood in urine over time).

He ordered another cat scan with dye contrast. He also flushed out the bladder removing over  a couple table spoons worth of blood clots so I could have the catheter removed. It was necessary as when it was removed earlier I plugged up again and had to have it installed all over again. Oh joy. So far so good, no plugging up.

I get the result of the new cat scan next Tuesday and the confirmation of the treatment plan. He is semi confident it has not  spread but that is why the new dye cat scan was ordered. He is optimistic we can remove the mass, and almost certainly the kidney it grew from and get it all out. This is not related to the prostate cancer I had, it’s a totally different one.

My purpose in mentioning the details is to advise y’all (TX thang ya know) to pay attention to any traces of blood in the urine and or kidney pain. The blood is the most common way this kind of cancer is found but it does require a cat scan. If you get advised you have trace amounts of blood in the urine during a physical talk to the Doc about the possibility of a cat scan to find out why, stones or other reason for the bleeding.

I ain’t dead yet and plan on fighting like hell to kick this cancers bellybutton just like I did the last one.
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2019, 12:41:30 PM »
Good luck. Will keep you and yours in our prayers.
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2019, 12:43:45 PM »
You and yours are in the thoughts and well wishes of me and mine.

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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2019, 12:57:18 PM »
Mike,

Very sorry to hear this news. I will pass it on to Otto.

As far as the kidney cancer, be positive and optimistic. As you know, I had my bout with kidney cancer in late 2004. I'm still here. My operation was hand-assisted laparoscopy which at the time was a bit forward thinking. Beats hell out of the 12" cut and remove operation. Probably by now there's no need to hand assist. I did go to MD Anderson as I figured for something like that you go to the Pros. Can't say that it won't hurt but you will recover.

I will add you to the list of people that I ask to be healed. Keep me informed. Call if you want to talk about it.

One suggestion I got that I think is very valuable is to keep a journal. Write down the contact info of the Docs you talk to, the dates of appointments and a summary of what was done and what was learned. You're going to be pretty busy and you're going to do a lot of scans and get a lot of advice/prognosis. It all runs together and after a while you can't remember who did/said what. This really helped me as the medical journey progressed.

Good luck, squaddie! Keep us informed.
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #4 on: June 08, 2019, 02:57:10 PM »
Sorry to hear of your new battle, will add you to the prayer list. Just remember the Master has the master plan. :rock :pray
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #5 on: June 08, 2019, 03:18:06 PM »
Hey my friend. I'm sorry that it took this to say hi but I think of you often and the fun we used to have. There's no reason why we should be as healthy as we were when we were 20, but still, it doesn't make it any easier. I just want you to know that you're loved and that you have real friends out here that care about you. I have strong faith in God and I will ask him to be with you and give him peace that passes understanding and more importantly, healing. if you feel up to it, give me a call at 913-208-3807 anytime you want to talk or just catch up. I love you buddy and while this world has little to offer, God is faithful.

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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2019, 07:37:39 PM »
God bless!

I had a cancer scare, though nothing this serious, per se. Just a bone headed, hamfisted diagnosis that didn't last a thorough exam, blood test and ultrasound, though a pretty rough few days.

I wish you a speedy recovery.

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« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2019, 08:25:25 PM »
 :pray 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏For a speedy, complete recovery.



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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #8 on: June 09, 2019, 09:05:00 PM »
I am sorry to hear this.  Kick its ass.

Also, diddly cancer.
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #9 on: June 11, 2019, 04:34:18 PM »
It's me R :saluteude

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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #10 on: June 12, 2019, 09:49:12 AM »
Saw the Doc yesterday. The new cat scan showed more details and still indicates no spread. We will know more once he gets inside. The tumor was a bit better defined in the scan and he updated the size to just about football shaped. He is hopeful that he will be able to save the gall bladder but told me to be prepared for it to be gone since it is right up against the sucker. He is still optimistic that removal will result in a "cure" but only time and continued checking, like the prostate cancer situation was 10 years ago, will tell. I will worry about it after wards. I am positive and plan on kicking this thing.

Surgery was set for next Tuesday. So there won't be a prolonged wait and that is fine with me. This freeloader has trespassed long enough and I want it evicted.
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #11 on: June 12, 2019, 10:23:24 AM »
You don't need that gall bladder. Best to get rid of it anyhow. Here's to a clean bill.  :cheers:

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« Reply #12 on: June 12, 2019, 11:06:40 AM »
Good luck Mav!
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #13 on: June 12, 2019, 11:42:14 AM »
Man! Lots of depressing news :(

Pulling for you to kick it in the butt and get a clean bill of health!
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Re: Significant life event agan.
« Reply #14 on: June 12, 2019, 12:06:54 PM »
Hang in there Mav. I have been going through some stuff myself so I know just how you feel. Had a little procedure 2 weeks ago...LOL ya 2 weeks thats the ticket!

  I set some goals,something to look forward to and plan for,seems to be helping me.... :old:


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