I vaguely remember that name...
Nothing has changed. We've just got older and partially aimed at other interests. Some people still get mad for poor sportsmanship, some still count any type of a kill, some just play for fun and some take this as a training camp for propeller fighters and bombers in case they'd be needed to fly them for real in some real war.
Good luck with your second marriage! An old Finnish song says "the dearest love can only be found of someone who's been left behind". My wife thinks she's luckier than my first one!