it aint about them it's about the kids. I remained friendly to my ex gf. went to the hospital and the nurse handed me that beautiful baby, I just knew then that I couldnt walk away, so I asked her if she wanted to get married. that beautiful boy turned into a great man. I dont regret, years after we got divorced and we got a couple of kids, she asked me if i ever loved her, I said, i did, you gave me a great son. I am proud of all my kids, 2 of mine one of hers, but that little boy, I wouldnt trade him for anything, same for my 2 kids.
after the divorce it wasnt fun. but I just told her, you ever try to stop me from seeing him, I'll make sure you wont get a penny from me.
he's not my step son, he's my son. I raised him and I loved him as I did with my other kids. what happened between their mom and me, wasnt their fault. but now we are older, we let things go by, we have raised 3 kids we are proud of and the past is the past. I have 3 grandaughters from my middle girl. havent met the 2 youngest ones they dont live nearby. cant wait to see them.
i had an exwife from hell with family working for child support but that's the past. I call her once in a while and sometimes she comes and visits, we dont talk about the past as it doesnt matter, what matter is the future for our kids and our grandkids.
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