As vr makes the game look crummier
It already has tons of other advantages in tracking due to the abilities to easily lean and look around cockpit obstructions.
And it's not just VR specific. Anyone running a lower res 2-D monitor also gets bigger dots.
You logic is basically that someone should be allowed a hack to make their cockpit semi-transparent because it is offset by making the gauges harder to read.
IMHO, you shouldn't be able to get a spotting range advantage by setting your resolution lower. That's just silly. Not in a competitive game.
That would be like allowing icons for some running AMD processors, but not for others running Intel processors.