Here's the problem
It makes players log off. Less players = less players log in. (numbers breed numbers, it's going backwards). They don't care. <shrug>
Doesn't matter if one should or shouldn't tolerate it or wait it out, doesn't even matter if I don't like it, that IS the effect, numbers drop, less long in when they see low numbers, you rarely hit critical mass (which would cure that nonsense).
If we had 140-200, no one would care about a 20-30 AC horde, they'd swallow them too. It slams the game into a catch 22 cycle. The game is fine, human nature is the bad part.
What is it about some just can't play without a full country horde to outnumber one side of a country at 5-1 odds, that's getting hammered on the other, while not one single spark between Bish and Rooks? Fear of equal force? Did anyone gain 3"?
Even if we had a fix in settings or maps, how long would that take?
Best I can say is, what a shame.
If the power of suggestion doesn't work, nothing will, it just becomes a undue battle of wack-a-mole.