Thank you all for the help, I am finally flying! Main issue was the hand controllers, once batteries were removed I was able to navigate in the VR world!
So far my direct connect via USBC seems very stable, I ordered one of the cables that charges and moves data at the same time. The micro freezes when keying mic seem to also be resolved by using my PC headset. Now I need to get over the motion sickness, I hear that is normal for the first week.