I'm a proud clipboard queen!
I got ganged before we had better dar. I like being able to see it coming sooner.
I don't want immersion and always looking around with VR strapped to my face. I got a screen, twisty stick, wife ack, beer, chips, and maybe a sandwich to contend with already. It's a game.
I can choose if I want to get ganged because it's on dar. Yes, they can see me, and I can see them, too.
Getting picked is a win. If the other guy asks for help or doesn't call off the third guy, he was beat. If it's 1v2, then I can admire well executed wingman tactics, or kill them both.