No, they are not from the viewpoint of what causes the orientation. Is it inborn? Is it psychological? Is it environmental? Make up your mind. Saying they are not the same thing in this area is wrong- you can apply the same arguments to both.
So, if we determine pedophilia occurs through no fault of the afflicted, should we not then practice the tolerance that bin Laden so hates? (you just gotta love that train of thought!) After all, we are enlightened, we should understand they didn't choose to be that way, they just, well, are.
No, no, no, Kieran, those are completely different issues. Gays are gay because they are. Pedophiles are pedophiles because... because...?
Like it or not, Grun has a point. What is unacceptable today is mainstream tomorrow. When I was in elementary school, no boy would have been caught dead in a pink T-shirt for fear of being labeled "gay". 30 years later we have scenes like the one depicted above in public places. Pedophiles, the criminals of today may be the "misunderstood minority" tomorrow.