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I have to say I find this whole event hilarious...

But I am also a little disappointed.
The CM`s will do all they can to help players who are disconnected, or who have other legitimate reasons for restarting.
However, the fact that Squad members made the mistake of firing off rockets or dropping bombs is not the fault of the server or the situation.
Especially since they made the mistake TWICE!!??....
It`s the player`s responsibility to fly and operate their aircraft in such a manner that they don`t kill themselves or their teammates.
If they make a mistake, I say tough.

The Squad C/O should have informed the CM of the circumstances of the losses, when asking for re-ups. Then the CM`s could have made an informed decision.
I killed myself in the first frame of BIG WEEK by running into a refueling shack when my view was blocked by another plane during refueling after a first mission.
I wasn`t allowed to re-up, neither did I expect to be able too. I think the same applies here.
