Let me try this one out on you.
If the To: address or Cc: or Bcc: address contains the address of the From: address, then the address in the From: line is dropped from the To:, Cc:, Bcc: lines.
For instance, if assume the following:
From: exile@aceshighcs.com
To: mason22@aceshighcs.com, exile@aceshighcs.com
In ths above instance, "exile" will not get a copy of the message, as it is assumed the sender of the email already has a copy of it.
I am not sure if this helps as I still am trying to get a handle on who is sending what and how it is being sent.
I have noticed quite a bit of email going to "exile" in the logs, so I know the address is working just fine.
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Roy "Skuzzy" Neese
President, AppLink Corp.
http://www.applink.netskuzzy@applink.net