Ok. 
I have been reading  this and other message boards.
as well as training pages.
I know that some use Combat trim ( like i do)
but i only use it because i do not understand how when and where to use manual trim.
Alot of the better pilots say manual trim all the way. then again alot of  pilots say dont worry bout it. use the combat trim.
i do understand the concept of trim.
but in RL  it is something that you feel.  you can feel  it when you are  out of trim. 
since we do not have the seat of the pants feel or the control feedback  that you would feel in Real life flight. then how do you know  when or how much manual trim to add?
what are you looking for  to tell you that you need to trim the aircraft? and how much  do you need to trim it for said manuver?
i know if  the aircraft is  trying to roll pitch or yaw when you are trying to get  the plane to fly straight and level you trim it. 
that is simple.
But, in a combat situation.....  how do you know how much trim to put into the bird or take out. if you are trying to fly the plane on the edge and  you cannot feel through the  controls what is needing in the way of how it wants to be trimmed?
i am sure there are some of these  super ACM guys that could explain a few basic situations and conditions of  when and how much  trim to add .
For instance.... if you dive  from 10k @200ias starting speed to 450ias max speed,  to  bounce an enemy. how are you  trimming as you are picking up speed?
 are you just trimming like crazy hoping that you  hit the right  trim setting  to get the  plane to perform  its best? or do you have a set  thing that you look for  to tell you to add trim and more trim?
 On your Zoom out  you pull a vertical manuver  to rope a bad guy from  the 450ias dive that you are  coming out of. so, you pull a pure vertical manuver , you are losing airspeed like crazy trying to  get every last bit of E out of your ride.  what are you looking for the plane to do to tell you that you need to trim the plane up.
as fast as you gain and lose airspeed in these 2 situations. how  do you keep up with that. what tells you  physically that you need to add/take away trim from any particular  control surface?
i  think having a general guide describing  common situations  such as the above situations. on when,why, and how much trim to use. would really shed  alot of light on the mystery of aces high trim.
i know i know.....  it is a secret.. you could tell me but you would then have to kill errrrr...... wait! most  of you have killed me many times 
 
 Thanks