hawk , i don't understand what you mean , some people don't know how to handle police, some people think they must 'confront " the police, that is the last thing you should do.
the police feel they must be "in control", so you must let the police think they are "in control", then the police won't shoot you or beat you up or maybe even arrest you, remember the cop has a gun, handcuffs, a radio, and a cop can really mess up your plans for the evening,...... "sir , i'm placing you under arrest"