Author Topic: lets take a break of political BS (Read 535 times)

Eaglecz · « **on:** July 15, 2002, 12:32:14 PM »

I didnt get it....

I just hear another story about divorce.
Im trying to look at it from all points of view, but can find any sense.

When 2 people get married, both of them had some crappy relationship before, why the diddly do they
expecting somethink like faithfulness? They both did BS before, so why are people so
surprised when their mate is unfaithfulness ? Are they realy so conceited? Why do people divorce because unfaithful?
I see kind of hypocracy in divorce, when nobody of them was virgin before their relationship.
Hehe and most funny is that most of them have balls to call me naive lol

Does it sound logicaly to you ?
Whats your point of view ?

Udie · « **Reply #1 on:** July 15, 2002, 12:34:41 PM »

why get married if you're going to cheat?

Eaglecz · « **Reply #2 on:** July 15, 2002, 12:38:23 PM »

why should somebody start relationship with cheater ?

Eagler · « **Reply #3 on:** July 15, 2002, 12:40:40 PM »

a new leaf?

everyone can change - some for the better, some for the worse

Eaglecz · « **Reply #4 on:** July 15, 2002, 12:51:17 PM »

so eagler you prefer to get married before you know the other...

when you are answering, try to be more exact please

im pretty sure that local word for relation ship and your is very diffrent

Udie · « **Reply #5 on:** July 15, 2002, 01:14:34 PM »

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Originally posted by Eaglecz
why should somebody start relationship with cheater ?

I wouldn't, but there are plenty of people here in America that are married to the spouse they stole from somebody else. To me that gets down to the most basic type of trust in a relationship....

Like Eagler said though, people can and do change....

Wlfgng · « **Reply #6 on:** July 15, 2002, 01:44:38 PM »

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Originally posted by Eaglecz
why should somebody start relationship with cheater ?
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I give you the Jerry Springer show..

don't know why but there are a hell of a lot of them!

Eagler · « **Reply #7 on:** July 15, 2002, 01:45:32 PM »

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Originally posted by Eaglecz
so eagler you prefer to get married before you know the other...

when you are answering, try to be more exact please

im pretty sure that local word for relation ship and your is very diffrent

when do you "know the other"?

a year, 5 years, never?

I personally couldn't marry a woman who cheated even if she cheated with me for the reasons you stated. I find it amazing when the cheating spouse marries the cheating spouse she/he was cheating with. I would think the level of trust would be suspect <- with good reason.
I just stated in my first post they must get married thinking they have/will change and "this time" it is "true love" and they will be faithful.

As far as marriage goes, its a struggle most do not have the will to see through as divorce rate is what around 70% now?
Time to "know the other " is only one ingredient to a successful marriage. Understanding and maturity are two biggies too...

I was a lucky kid (19) when I found my soulmate. We dated almosted 2 years (high school/college) but honestly we did not "know" each other. Thought we did.
Time changes all, surviving those changes is the battle.
Last Wed, July 10th was our 24th anniversary.
I know friends who waited until mid/late 20's and are now on their 2nd/3rd try at marriage.
It ain't easy, but it can be done

Eaglecz · « **Reply #8 on:** July 15, 2002, 02:21:24 PM »

nice one eagler

be back later

Ripsnort · « **Reply #9 on:** July 15, 2002, 02:44:14 PM »

Congrats Eagler!

I married my best friend, and she hers...its easy with the right person.

Reminds me of an email I was priveleged to intercept on the FDB website about Creamo and his male..er Mail order bride:

Creamo: "This mail-(or is it male?)order bride discussion intrigued me so I thought I'd give it a try. I procured a catalog from a reputable dealer, Sears, and proceeded to browse through it.

I found many women to my liking but narrowed it down to three. I couldn't decide, so I thought, 'What the heck, I'll take all three'. I called in my order:

ME: Hello Sears, I'd like to order two from page 14 and one from page 37.

CLERK: Very good sir. We'll have your order shipped out tomorrow.

ME: Great!

CLERK: What size would you like?

ME(excitedly): They come in different sizes?

CLERK: Uh, yes. And colors too.

ME(barely able to control myself): Wow! Hmmm. I'll take them just the way
they look in the catalog. How much more would it be if you also include
the outfits they're wearing?

CLERK: Excuse me, sir?

ME(impatiently): What's the problem? I want the women and the outfits
they're wearing, can't you handle that?

CLERK(chuckling): Oh, sir! We can't sell you the outfits AND the models!

ME: Do you mean the models and the outfits are separate?

CLERK: Yes, of course.

ME: Ok, then just send me the women, keep the outfits.

CLERK(sternly): Sir, I don't know what you *think* we are but we are a
department store dealing in legitimate merchandise.

ME(contritely): Um, uh, I knew that.

CLERK: Now, do you want what you ordered or was this just an infantile
joke?

ME(embarassedly): Oh no! As I said two from page 14 and one from page 37.

CLERK(tersely): Thank you sir. Will that be COD or charge?

ME(in a low murmur): Charge.....

Well, two days later I'm the proud owner of a bra and two pieces of
lingerie and I guess I still don't understand this mail-order bride stuff."

Eaglecz · « **Reply #10 on:** July 15, 2002, 04:59:03 PM »

lol rip

btw it seems to me that current community do publicity of promiscuid loosers instead of decent,patient people ....

is it common preasure or only my mad phantasy ?

easymo · « **Reply #11 on:** July 15, 2002, 05:18:16 PM »

Fidelity is a good yardstick for character. Just look at clinton.

KG45 · « **Reply #12 on:** July 15, 2002, 09:19:39 PM »

Fidelity is a good yardstick for character. just look at

newt gingrich (serial adulterer)

rush limbaugh (serial adulterer)

rudi guiliani (wanted his mistress to be able to move into gracie mansion while his wife was still there)

mark churmura (married pro-football player that wouldn't go to WH cause he didn't like clintons morals, later caught with high school girls in a hot-tub)

j.c. watts (repub. congressman from oklahoma, multiple out-of-wedlock children. he is also quoted as saying 'character is doing the right thing even when noone is looking'. i guess he knocked-up those women in the dark.)

Toad · « **Reply #13 on:** July 15, 2002, 10:06:13 PM »

28 years and no end in sight.

It does take work. And understanding. And lots of other things.

But it's worth it. Especially when the chips are down and the world is looking pretty bleak.

Nice to know there's somebody standing with you.

Tumor · « **Reply #14 on:** July 15, 2002, 11:09:47 PM »

Rush Limbaugh?? lol. I thought he'd only been married a couple of years.

Anyway....

"Dear Abby,
My husband is a lying cheat. He tells me he loves me, but he has cheated our entire marriage. He is a good provider and has many friends and supporters. They know he is a lying cheat, but they just avoid the issue. He is a hard worker but many of his co-workers are leery of him. Every time he gets caught, he denies it all. Then he admits that he was wrong and begs me to forgive him. This has been going on for so long, everyone in town knows he is a cheat. I don't know what to do.
Signed,Frustrated

Dear Frustrated
You should dump him. Now that you are finally a New York Senator, you don't need him anymore."