This ought to start a war, but that's not my intention.
I owned an X-45 Stick and Throttle combo for years. It was a cute little toy, and had light springs. The buttons were functional enough to get the job done, but over time, I found myself looking for more.
I found it in the Cougar. Lasse, I have the exact set-up your taling about. The cougar is a monster. It's steel construction can be hard on your hands, especially when your palms start to sweat, so be ready to buy a cheap pair of fingerless gloves.
All these cougar users and testers talking about the springs have got to be out of their minds!
Sure, the springs are tighter than the other little toy joysticks on the market, but the cougar in not bad. And the springs loosen enough after about 20-30 hours iof use.
Now, I'm 5'9", 150 lbs, I don't work out, and I have NO TROUBLE WHATSOEVER banging that stick around.
The programming of the cougar can be daunting. But you have 2 choices. Read the manual, or "Borrow" someone elses template, download it, launch it, and off you go. I got mine from Revvin, and he did a great job. I've yet to program that stick!
Now for the rudders, I have those about a month, and they are already a bit spikey. I'm not happy with them, so you may want to look elsewhere for a better set of rudders.
But as for the money, the cougar was the best $300 I ever spent. Chips and Bits had the best price, and I think they offer free shipping.
Fear not the cougar!