"From my point of veiw i had no chance of knowing this guy was there until it was too late. "
Isn't this the guy you said you were chasing for like 2 minutes? During that time, couldn't you be bothered to look around you even ONCE? I know you're a good flier so you really have no excuse for not having seen the other friendly, except perhaps laziness (we all get lazy wuth SA sometimes, not an insult).
What do you expect, all the friendlies in the area to always ignore whatever enemy you decide to attack? The AH MA is very much a free-for-all; sometimes that works to your benefit, sometimes it doesn't. It's human nature to complain about the times we lose out, so I can understand your post here (I get quite vocal on squad channel at times), but that doesn't really mean there's a problem with AH.
We all die to killshooter now and then, or at least suffer some damage from it. Accidents happen. I maintain that if you die to KS more than once every few months, then you are doing something drastically wrong.
That said, I don't particularly like killshooter. It makes things like bomber escorting or clearing a wingman's 6 needlessly dangerous.
J_A_B