I enjoyed the TRL. Very esoteric and beautiful. Though it is probably a little too preachy or spiritual for my taste. But in war, you can go from beauty to sheer terror which can freeze a man in an instant. I know I got something from this movie, it's just hard to put into words.
Just spotted this sentence:
"Everytime they cut the scene back to the "wife" who wrote the Dear John letter, I got disgusted... too much poetry/roadkill dialogue and I was sick of seeing the damn woman swinging/bathing."
Contrast between where you want to be and where you really are. Yeah, a bit poetic, but that stuff did happen. That could have a profound effect on your actions in wartime.
I'm not sure too many people know it, but Randy Cunningham received a letter from his wife requesting divorce/split just a short time (maybe even just days) before he made ace in Vietnam. I've been through a divorce and though I wanted it, it takes a lot from you and I can just imagine what it would do to you during wartime.