The only time I ever have a problem with carrier landings is when I'm lined up to land and then the carrier starts to turn. Most of the time, I manage to touch down fine anyway, but for some reason, even AFTER the plane touches down and is arrested by the hook, it just explodes.
The modelling of the way planes behave while on the deck of a turning carrier is really bad. As long as the wheels are on the deck, you shouldn't slide around like you do in AH. You move WITH the carrier until you lift off.