To select your joystick or other hardware device in Aces High, click on the Setup button on the clipboard, click on the Joystick button, then click on Select Joystick. This will bring up a separate dialog that will allow you to assign input to your different hardware devices.
Clicking on any item in the AH Control list box will highlight the Joystick Input associated with that control.
Set All Inputs and Set All Buttons are short cuts to set all input and/or buttons at once instead of individually. Set Input sets individual controls.
For example, if you wanted to set the control of the Throttle to the dial on your joystick, you would click on Throttle in the AH Controls list, click on your joystick in the Joystick list, and click on Dial in your Joystick Input list, then click the Set Input button.
That's off the AH web page , now just make sure u "set input" and then "apply" .
I use what you have but for the joystick , I have a ffb 2 , it all works in AH but you just have to set the bugger up in there first .
The buttons are the hardest but I have all mine working as directx , all 20 on the throttle and 8 on the stick . Plus the brakes on the pedals .
Don't give up yet , it really does work well just it's so new to you yet .