Yep beet1e, I expect alot of different answers. In fact, that's exactly what I'm looking for. I'll sort through'em, read links to recommended gear, check reviews, and eventually boil it down and find my best bang for the buck point.
Now, my current box is a 1g duron on an MSI k7n420 board. nForce chipset with the onboard video (use a gf2 ultra though). I like the board/chipset, it works great. Specially like the dbracket that came with it with the 4 LEDs that help ya trouble shoot where ya lock up during boot up

Was originally built with an XP1600+ but fried chip cause we set the heat sink wrong and best I could do to replace it at the time was a 1g duron.
Chipsets: I tend to shy away from Via. Granted it's been a few years, but my one experience with Via was pure toejam. Even with all the drivers and updates et al I was impressed if the box booted up. Since then I've heard Via got thier act together, so they aren't totally out, just starting behind the pack

One board I that made running is the
MSI K7N2 .
I'll give the asus boards a closer look, seems lots of folks around here swear by'em.
Skuzzy with a vid card I'm lookin for the best picture/performance for the price. Upgrading the vid card in a year or so isn't that big of a deal (the wife would so happy I'm just changing a card instead of building a whole new system

). And an upgrade to my box means an upgrade to hers, passing her the one I replace.
Are the nVidia and ATI cards really just 6 of one, half-dozen of the other with the exception of the dx9 issue? Already knew about that one, but how many games coming out in the next 12 months are actually gonna use dx9? Any one card maker better than others, or is that just comparing features?