You're welcome to give the TED a try wetrat. We're quite an informal group...no squad rank structure, no mandatory squad nights etc. Fly what you want to when you want to. The inmates pretty much run the asylum here. Basically we're just a bunch of P-38 dweebs that enjoy flying together and keelin stuff. Oh yeah, and we usually fly for the bishops. If this sounds like your cup of tea, don't hesitate to look one of us up in the MA.
If you're leaning towards a Jug outfit, I can wholeheartedly recommend ammo and the guys in the 56th FG. Class acts and good sticks all...can't go wrong there. They fly bish as well.
Good luck in your search. Hope you find a good fit. S!