I was recently the victim of a friendly fire issue in a single death TOD. Problem was, it was all my fault, not the guy shooting. I was capping and my wingman got on a La-La tail but was being out run. I had alt so I dove in, got fixated on target and as I triggered, so did my wingman, whom I had forgotten about. I flew right into his stream and ended my night prematurely.
So, should he be punished somehow becuase of my mistake.
Friendly fire is a part of warfare, one which only training and discipline can hope to prevent. If there is no KS, the game is mush more realistic. If it happens once, you are gone for 24 hours. If it happens again, you are automaticall banned.