I think I understand you now.
Basically, your saying, no matter what nationality the child is, it's still a tragedy.
I agree.
And you must agree that we, the United States did not put Iraqi children in harms way. Saddam Hussein did. And if that is not enough, how many Kurdish and Shiite children suffered and died in the gas attacks ordered by this butcher?
As painful as war is, it is a necessary evil to protect the world from this evil creature. If Saddam is concerned about protecting his people from collateral damage, all he has to do is get on a plane with his immediate family, and go into exile. He will not do this. We all know that. So he has, and will continue to put the Iraqi people at risk.