Sure, I'd be more than happy to help.
First, we obviously have to correct your facts. You are mistaken about why we were there, and obviously about how operators run. Since you are obviously VERY misinformed, I'm going to start you off small.
Here's a few books I have read. They are actually accounts from both sides, and not entirely pro US. I feel they paint an accurate picture. Some of them contain notes from my friends, as my team was present in that arena of action.
Black Hawk Down: Good for US perspective of the actual combat, and UN involvement.
Somalia: Good Intentions, Deadly Results. Contains some interesting interviews from both sides. Gives a fairly unbiased Somali point of view
Ambush in Mogadishu: Similiar to BHD, but contains a good timeline of events prior and past.
Ma-alinti Rangers: Very anti american, but good perspective of the Somali side.
When you finish those, let me know. We'll discuss them, and I'll give you a few more suggestions.