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Offline AKDejaVu

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« Reply #15 on: July 31, 2000, 06:28:00 PM »
 
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So, you're saying that I can't deal things out with people?

I'm saying that starting a new thread about an argument with someone in another thread is not a good way to work things out with people.

Example: Me starting a thread entitled "Fishu can't work things out with people" instead of responding in this manner.

 
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Tell me, why is people so precautious, and not giving me a chance now when I want once that?

People weren't prococious.. a person was.  Starting a new thread assuming that everyone is being precocious is precocious itself.

If you have a problem with someone.. work it out with them.  Starting a new thread in a public forum in regards to a problem you had with a specific individual in another thread places that "kick me" sign back where it started... on your back.

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« Reply #16 on: July 31, 2000, 06:33:00 PM »
Has there ever been a thread more worthy of being placed in the O'Club?

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« Reply #17 on: July 31, 2000, 06:36:00 PM »
I find it truly ironic that HTC's most outspoken, merciless, unrelenting,
totally-biased oracle of unsubstantiated criticism appears unable to accept any sort of personal criticism himself while pleading for "mercy."

Perhaps the name of this thread should be "Do I always just want to pick on HTC? Time to Talk" or maybe "Why are people not giving me a chance now that I want one and have NEVER given anyone else a chance?"

I truly hesitate to become involved further in this thread. There's an old saying "Don't lie down with pigs. It just irritates the pigs and you get up covered in pigsh*t."

However, once again, against the better judgement of the "self" that told me not to try to rationally discuss dissent with another "famous personality" in the MA....

Fishu, if you really want a "no holds barred" explanation of what I personally find offensive in the way you have represented yourself on the HTC BBS, I'll oblige you.

Be forewarned, it won't be a short post and it will feature many, many quotes of your posts.
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« Reply #18 on: July 31, 2000, 08:51:00 PM »
funked, it seemed that most of the problem is in the discussion side, not in the o'club, wheres not those people or my posts that I wanted to speak.

Besides, you probably havent even seen the original post which I erased due to that it was just waste of effort when people reads it fast through and tells their automated answer. (which i would hear in any other thread)

Akdejavu,
Problem is that I do test results that I have, and when people comes to tell me something, they dont listen or try to listen me, and some of them very visibly just tries to whine about my posts.
I do stupid posts after I began explaining so that people would understand and then it gets deeper when one thread is split into ten subjects.
Then again, this is not personal or I would have solved it already, so thread is the only way to reach people to deal things out.

Besides, "about an argument with someone", that was example of that what I get, very clear example.
and that was nothing personal with Wolf37, but with all, who does that sort of posts in another way. (you might go look other threads and you find those people who just wants to whine at me on purpose)
Example should tell that theres other cases as well with other people. (did you even read my thread completely?)

toad,
excuse me, but I tell from experience and tests in AH and what seems completely BS according to that all what I've read.
Somehow people has not seen me a single time saying somethings fine, I wonder hows that, when theres many times when I have said so that this is cool and so on.

About criticism on me, if you're talking about this thread, then you must know that I am trying to deal things out and make people understand that they might have mistaken in some parts of discussions.
When I in other discussions do that what you call 'whine', because of other peoples 'whine', I try to explain my point and make people understand it in cases that they dont understand. (I am usually trying too much to make people understand my point, even if they dont want to understand, and theres few)

So Toad, are you willing to give me a chance or not? tell it clearly
hmm, did you see my original post?

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« Reply #19 on: July 31, 2000, 09:01:00 PM »
Perhaps I'll better quit worrying what people thinks, what they misunderstand and whine.....  just keep in the facts without worthless whines to make people understand.

Why would I care anyway about that now when I've seen that most of them doesnt care what I say after few loud mouths have been talking too much crap.

Most of my stupid posts are because of people talking too much crap about different things and the begining is forgotten.
Sounds like good to forget their whines and opinions.

Like good friend of mine said, 'screw them if they dont try to listen'

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« Reply #20 on: July 31, 2000, 09:09:00 PM »
Fishu I didn't read any of it.  It's obviously got nothing to do with the game, just with your personal issues, and it belongs off-topic.

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« Reply #21 on: July 31, 2000, 09:22:00 PM »
 
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Originally posted by funked:
Fishu I didn't read any of it.  It's obviously got nothing to do with the game, just with your personal issues, and it belongs off-topic.

This is AH discussion issue for me, where few seems to want to just blame on me and I want to deal it out with them who feel so. ok?

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« Reply #22 on: July 31, 2000, 10:27:00 PM »
One of the first things I learned working on my family's farm in Kansas was this.....when you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you should do is stop digging!

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« Reply #23 on: July 31, 2000, 11:32:00 PM »
 
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Originally posted by Cobra:
One of the first things I learned working on my family's farm in Kansas was this.....when you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you should do is stop digging!

but I don't like that 'if you dont like it, forget it' theme...
that way kind of sounds like I should just walk away, forget all and not deal it out with people..
I'd like to be friends again not read too often those guys posts that just on purpose wants to whine on me because I have done the same more and more aggressive as thread goes on with the same stupid topic that has nothing to do with that whole thread..

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« Reply #24 on: July 31, 2000, 11:44:00 PM »
"home is where u dig it"


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« Reply #25 on: July 31, 2000, 11:50:00 PM »
Fishu,

 Your problem isn't people whining about you. It is you. You told me in a post you are a student and can't afford to pay to play. Then act like a good student and spend time listening instead of talking. You speak of things you do not have direct experiance with and try to tell those who DO have experiance, (even a career in the subject) that they are wrong. You need to sit back and leave the BBS posting alone for a bit.

You don't play the SIM, you have no real business criticising it if you don't use it. You sure don't have any business criticising others who have experiance in the subjects they are posting about.  

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« Reply #26 on: August 01, 2000, 12:10:00 AM »
I don't want to pile on here, Fishu. I am curious of one thing though:

Why do you think people respond negatively to you?

Not a flame- I just feel sometimes we already know the answers to the questions we ask.

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« Reply #27 on: August 01, 2000, 12:45:00 AM »
hi all:

did i start all this


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« Reply #28 on: August 01, 2000, 12:51:00 AM »
 
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Originally posted by Kieren:
I don't want to pile on here, Fishu. I am curious of one thing though:

Why do you think people respond negatively to you?

Not a flame- I just feel sometimes we already know the answers to the questions we ask.

Not all, but few certain ones seems to just reply to me everytime they can if they just can bring bad sides of my talking up...
It is like the example I gave with wolf37, but that is just example where from you can't miss the idea of my meaning.
Of course other that sort of stuffs are not as visible...
some of them do that because they like me as much as I like them..
Often I also read messages where people does not read my post completely and then writes their own, and I do read theirs, reply to it and they still does not get my meaning because they dont try to understand what they read...
sometimes that begins to feel that there is something personal going on when they keep so stubbornely from trying to understand me.
(as I reply to that in effort to make him understand, he replies what he does and then more people joins up to blame on me)

Would like to tell more precisly my meaning here but that would again count as too much whine and some certain people wouldnt maybe want to read it and understand completely.

this is reply to Kieren, so no flames from other than him, ok?

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« Reply #29 on: August 01, 2000, 12:54:00 AM »
 
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Originally posted by wolf37:
hi all:

did i start all this

Not really, but partly yes...
Kind of got enough of that when people begins to flaming my posts.
Yours was good example in most clearest form of that how few people reacts to my posts. (most of the people however does that less visibly though, but point gotten with example)