Well, Curval;
Having raised a young man to 21, and still raising a fifteen year old, know that IT GOES INCREDIBLY FAST.
Soon, you will no longer be heroic in their eyes.

Soon, you will be the most stupid person ever born.

Soon, you will be the meanest man ever to have lived.

Soon! Very soon!
So, go enjoy these days; relish every second; idet everything on your memory. You will need it because I have discovered that God has given parents only twelve years to love their children, before the devil imposes teenage on us!
Sigh, I am getting old and misty. I love my children and do in fact relish all of the times I've spent with them. Winning does not matter, or even trying to win. It's that you are there. They won't appreciate it until they are fathers too, but, you will have planted the right seed for them to be good fathers.