3-point landings are no problem. Upon touching down in a near-stall condition, I apply full aft stick to keep the plane on the ground (same as in real life). For wheel landings, on the rare occasion that I use them in AH, as soon as the mains touch down I apply enough *forward* stick to keep them planted, maintain directional control with the rudder, and allow the tailwheel to make contact with the ground when it's ready.
For landings where I plan to re-arm, I'll 3-point it right on the threshhold, then apply enough throttle to fast taxi tail-up to the arming pad.