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Offline DRILL

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« Reply #15 on: July 27, 2003, 09:56:54 AM »
Marriage and sex
 do not work well togeather .....
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« Reply #16 on: July 27, 2003, 09:59:23 AM »
Marriage didn't affect my ex-wife's libido at all. Just ask anybody.

Offline threedays

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« Reply #17 on: July 27, 2003, 11:50:39 AM »
ups ..... sex before marriadge ?

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« Reply #18 on: July 28, 2003, 09:26:25 AM »
Gremlin wrote:
hehe, mebbe its your grossenarsch How you been ya old cherrypicker? Haven't seen you in the arenas in sooo long
Come back soon buddy, i need to pad my score


Hey Gremlin bro! Yah; no cash for new rudders/throttle due to getting driver's license and skydiving. And no job either, despite having great grades. There were *three* positions I was qualified for in the entire country last time I checked. Gotten so many rejections my job hunting is starting to look like my women -hunting :D.

Other than that I'm doing ok (unemployment does wicked things to your mind bro). How you doing?

Oh and btw; if you're a masochistic SOB you'll want me back as I'll spank you to within an inch of your life - and then a little more. For score-padding (or 'padding fetish'), I suggest you look up Kirin :D

Mark Luper
I agree on your comments. However one must not downplay the emotional part of sex. Doing it just to 'get off' is one thing, but there's also a huge bonding thing if we're talking two people who love each other. If I was tog et married in three weeks I'd be worried big time about losing that intimacy. or of either my partner getting bored with me or the other way around - either way you lose intimacy. OTOH, if the partner or I am bored, there probably isn't that much going on in the first place.

FWIW, I envy you your success in marriage. I doubt I'd be able to come anywhere close to it, so I'm gonna play it safe til I get around, say, 40.

Capt. Apathy
Good rules, I'll relay them to my pal. I have this idea that it's the kids that cause the decline in most marriages, so some rules there might help 'im.
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« Reply #19 on: July 28, 2003, 09:36:45 AM »
LOL MT....

"Sex is great, but I think it is highly overrated."  ummm....disagree.

Marriage didn't affect my sex life...but kids sure did.
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« Reply #20 on: July 28, 2003, 09:38:48 AM »
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Originally posted by Mark Luper
StSanta,
The first thing your friend needs to realize is that sex is not what holds a marriage together. It is just icing on the cake. If sex is all there is between them the marriage won't last very long.

I have been blessed with a life partner of 37 years (this comming Dec.) who first of all was my best friend. We do things together and enjoy life as it comes...together. We have always maintained the utmost respect and regard for each other and we never part without having first made sure all questions are answered.

Sex is great, but I think it is highly overrated. It should never be the foundation on which a marriage is based. Time takes it's toll on all of us and "frequency" does diminish but if the foundation of a marriage is set in the concrete of friendship, mutual respect, and admiration it will last forever.


Spoken like a poet!