"88 mm CV ack from enemie CV which is 2 sectors away!!!"
- It happens. It sucks. But the problem of automatic systems in the game will result in those things inevitably. I've tried jinking, turning, flying fast, flying slow etc etc.. and it seems nothing really effects the 88mm hits. That happens to everybody, no exceptions. So don't be discouraged about this one.
"Taking off from CVs in the direction of the wind...less drag!!"
- I never check any wind direction during CV take-offs. Only when the CV is directly prior/while/directly after turning the take-off/landing procedure is seriously hampered. Otherwise, as long as the CV is going straight, you can up anything any configuration available. You'll just have to practice this one.
"Lot of Breaking my wingtips in very high G turns. "
- Depends a lot on the plane type, and you're flying habits. Generally, try not to get in a situation where you have to yank on the stick during high speeds. You'll get the hang of it over time.
"Kissing deck while I am capping (cc I vulch....lets help C47s made their work ) "
- This is effected a lot by frame rates and plane configuration, not to mention skill. Targetting a moving ground target actually is not so easy - especially when it is moving in a direction of more than 45 degrees angle. Also, I sometimes notice that when you go in really close against a ground vehicle or a plane in a strafing run, the frame rate drops significantly for a moment - regardless of smoke or not - which causes a lot of unexpected deaths.
"Lots of rammings while I am blowing enms up at 200 yards. "
- You don't need to be at 200yards. Just shoot from a longer distance, since that is possible in AH. Don't hesitate to use the advantage of it(unless you are armed with a MK108 or a ShVAK, or a MG-FF)
"Very few killshooters. "
- If you see many planes chasing one enemy, just ignore it. Your help can always be used elsewhere. If you are in a hot chase against a bogey, and a more maneuverable plane comes along and joins the chase, take a deep breath and think "okay, you can take this one, dork!" and move out. He's probably going to steal your kill anyway.
"Some CV landings. "
- No royal road in this one. Just practice.
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All in all, take your time. Everybody sucked in those things you described once. Get used to it, practice a bit, and you'll do just fine.