The 109 has a quite a bit higher wingloading than the Spit through all models. That quite much explains the turning thingie, also the very good turning abilities of the a6m, the Kate and the Val by the way.
However the 109 F is quite a nimble plane and it does have some edges on par or better than the Spit IX. The above mentioned speed on the deck, well, yes, our Spit is the High altitude version, but also initial acceleration and climb at low alt when one considers that the WEP on the 109 goes on a lot longer.
A good pilot in a 109F therefor does not necessarily have to be dead when he faces a Spit9, it all depends really.....
Oh, and the Slats are modelled in AH, but without their disadvatages, which was slamming in and out at bad moments, throwing off the pilot's aim. Famous German aces like Gunther Rall did not like them and even had them wired stuck!