Well, maybe I got that wrong, but it was my impression that some buff drivers in AH have a big ego and think they are born leaders, and that it's enough to yell at everyone to get something organized going, not implying that you are one of these.
In case it is so, let me assure it doesn't that way, at least not in a game - it may work if you are either a big boss or a rank in the army.
Unlike RL, leadership in games is usually not won by those who desire it but by those who deserve it. Yet, even sometimes the 'leader' is the best man suited for the task although he doesn't wants the 'job' at all.
In case it isn't so, just call it a bad day, use the .squelch command on pilots that seem to offend you if you're unable to talk to them on private, sleep about it and give it another try another day. Until now, it's never been the same the next day.
Az
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