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Title: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: oakranger on August 28, 2009, 01:05:28 PM
.....or this could be you.   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c)
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: gyrene81 on August 28, 2009, 01:35:56 PM
This one is better:

Cheating Hubby Beatdown (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9V-OVB-vaWc&feature=related)
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: oakranger on August 28, 2009, 03:21:31 PM
LOL, it made the "major breaking news".
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Anodizer on August 28, 2009, 07:04:56 PM
.....or this could be you.   

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPGEBbfTX-c)

Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: DaveJ on August 28, 2009, 07:22:03 PM
Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....


Ah, but it takes a little bit of stones to go out there and have that sign on you.
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: gyrene81 on August 28, 2009, 07:29:09 PM
I think it takes bigger stones to follow through with something that humiliating...too many other fish in the bucket for me to go through that, unless I'm rich and it's a community property state.
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Anodizer on August 28, 2009, 08:14:11 PM
It's a b*tch move..  For the rest of his life, this dude will always live under "her" heal and she will always remind him of his infidelity(even 20 years down the road)....
Are you kidding me????  Takes no stones whatsoever to do this..  Only fearful submission on his part probably under some kind of duress from his wife's family(brother threatening him or something probably)..  No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....

Anyhow, I'd like to know HOW he cheated, anway?  Intercourse?  Fellatio?  Or (gods forbid) kissing?  Many women consider trivial things like flirtation as cheating.... 
Take it like a man: get divorced, pay child support(if kids are involved) and move on...

9/10 times, once someone cheats in a relationship, it's as good as over....  That animosity and distrust is always there no matter what you do.. 



Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Mark Luper on August 28, 2009, 08:21:03 PM
Not that I condone infidelity....
But, wow....  What a spineless tool...lol  Only a sweetheart with no stones would agree to this..
"Please honey!  I'll do anything if you take me back!!"

C'mon moron..  You made your choice, now live with it and back out quietly....


My take on this:

The guy really loves his wife but he screwed up for a quickie. The other scenario may be he was set up and didn't actually cheat on his wife.

Either way, I see a person who is really in love with his partner and is willing to do whatever it takes to keep the marriiage going.

I understand that. I love my wife enough that I would be willing to do what he did if it meant we could keep the marriage intact.

There is going to be a loss of trust because of what happened to cause this and it will be years before it will not be the first thing out of his wife's mouth when they have an argument. If he really loves her he will put up with it because she is what matters most to him.

The guy was a moron for doing what he did, not for trying to make up and keep the marriage intact.

Word

Mark
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Stixx on August 28, 2009, 11:28:16 PM
It's a b*tch move..  For the rest of his life, this dude will always live under "her" heal and she will always remind him of his infidelity(even 20 years down the road)....
Are you kidding me????  Takes no stones whatsoever to do this..  Only fearful submission on his part probably under some kind of duress from his wife's family(brother threatening him or something probably)..  No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....

Anyhow, I'd like to know HOW he cheated, anway?  Intercourse?  Fellatio?  Or (gods forbid) kissing?  Many women consider trivial things like flirtation as cheating.... 
Take it like a man: get divorced, pay child support(if kids are involved) and move on...

9/10 times, once someone cheats in a relationship, it's as good as over....  That animosity and distrust is always there no matter what you do.. 


+1 :aok
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: gyrene81 on August 28, 2009, 11:43:17 PM
No guy worth his balls would ever do this....  Then again, no guy worth his balls would cheat on his wife in the first place....
Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Stixx on August 29, 2009, 12:48:00 AM
Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.

Sorry gyrene, but there is no excuse, when you stand up and say 'Till death do us part,' that doesn't mean till you get bored or your partner ain't interesting anymore, or whatever reason. When you marry someone you make a promise to that person. Period end of discussion.
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Anodizer on August 29, 2009, 01:45:21 AM
Hold on there partner. There are a lot of reasons people go outside the marriage for sexual gratification. Aside from having the morals of a dog (guilty).
Only those living in the fantasy idyllic world of "perfect marriage" don't consider the issues that could push one partner or the other to looking outside the marriage. Unless you've walked in that guys shoes, don't be so quick to judge his actions.


There's only one reason anyone would go outside of their marriage for sexual gratification: self-interest
There's only one reason for infidelity: self-interest(on one or both partners)

I was going to say selfishness but I didn't want to sound like a fundamentalist preacher who uses words like obedience..
I despise that word...  Obedience is for dogs.....



Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: DMBEAR on August 29, 2009, 01:51:49 AM
Moral High Horse Alert

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Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: uptown on August 29, 2009, 07:04:52 AM
Did my wife put you up to this!?  :noid
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: RipChord929 on August 29, 2009, 07:53:22 AM
I'm gettin a good laugh out of this thread!!!

Just wondering what the marriage history is for you guys!!!!
As in, how many times? And how many years?

It says alot about a persons life experience!!!

RC
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: Stalwart on August 29, 2009, 09:51:55 AM
I'm gettin a good laugh out of this thread!!!

Just wondering what the marriage history is for you guys!!!!
As in, how many times? And how many years?

It says alot about a persons life experience!!!

RC

+1    :rofl
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: gyrene81 on August 29, 2009, 10:42:25 AM
I'm gettin a good laugh out of this thread!!!

Just wondering what the marriage history is for you guys!!!!
As in, how many times? And how many years?

It says alot about a persons life experience!!!

RC
2 working on 3.

I had the morals of a rooster in a hen house with the first one...and she was a controlling beyotch. Had self-esteem issues. 11yrs kaput.
Second one was major idiocy on my part. 3yrs and 1 child on again off again...1yr marriage kaput.

Til death do us part in human terms does not mean anything more than "til emotional death we will be together". We are probably the stupidest animals on this planet when it comes to mating. At some point in time through our (and I use the term loosely) "evolution", we decided to add emotions to our myriad weaknesses. And instead of letting instinct dictate we let those emotions guide our actions 99% of the time.
Title: Re: Don't cheat on your wife........
Post by: oakranger on August 30, 2009, 12:12:31 AM
I'm gettin a good laugh out of this thread!!!

Just wondering what the marriage history is for you guys!!!!
As in, how many times? And how many years?

It says alot about a persons life experience!!!

RC

Married for 9 years and still going strong.