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General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: Tupac on October 10, 2011, 12:55:30 AM
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Found a girl that I really liked, and we talked for awhile and I asked her to be my girlfriend. (This was like a week ago) Hung out a few times last week and she seemed to have fun - I even took her flying
Then today she asked me to come over to her house and she told me I remind her of her old boyfriend to much.
(http://blogi.newsweek.pl/wp-content/uploads/Untitled-1.jpg)
OK maybe it isn't THAT bad.
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Are you sure you want us discussing this topic on a public forum?
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Are you sure you want us discussing this topic on a public forum?
I don't see why not - just venting.
I am but an anonymous internet poster
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I don't see why not - just venting.
I am but an anonymous internet poster
Well if I'd be you I wouldn't want her seeing this thread. Unless you never tell her who "Tupac" is.
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Well if I'd be you I wouldn't want her seeing this thread.
She totally dumped me - I don't care if she sees it or not
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She totally dumped me - I don't care if she sees it or not
Oh you did not say that in the OP. Than it's ok, you can even post pictures. :rofl
I say forget that it ever happened, especially if you hung out with her for a week or two. The only thing I'd regret is taking her flying, apparently she was not worth it.
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Don't worry there is a cure for forever aloneness.
(http://funnykittens.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/cutekitten7.jpg)
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Found a girl that I really liked, and we talked for awhile and I asked her to be my girlfriend. (This was like a week ago) Hung out a few times last week and she seemed to have fun - I even took her flying
Then today she asked me to come over to her house and she told me I remind her of her old boyfriend to much.
(http://blogi.newsweek.pl/wp-content/uploads/Untitled-1.jpg)
OK maybe it isn't THAT bad.
so, her old bf was a pilot who took her for rides in his plane aswell?
sorry bud, but i doubt the "old bf" excuse is the real reason.
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i doubt the "old bf" excuse is the real reason.
yeah, me too.
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Forever alone eh? How old are you again? 17? How about we trade shoes, I'm 21 and so far I haven't even had a girl that was my friend since I was, what, 14? Let alone a real girlfriend. At least you're meeting girls eh?
I'll shaddap now. :)
On another note, I also do not believe she dragged you over to her place just to tell you that you remind her too much of her old boyfriend and then kick you out. :headscratch:
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Dude, as long as you have that plane, you are set. If taking a girl for a flight to some other city for a bite to eat for a date isn't a winner, I don't know what is. Chicks are automatically attracted to pilots for a reason.
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At least it wasn't through a text message or email.
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On another note, I also do not believe she dragged you over to her place just to tell you that you remind her too much of her old boyfriend and then kick you out. :headscratch:
She lives in the same neighborhood as me, and after she told me we talked for awhile.
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Aye, gotcha. So, when are ya planning on asking her what the real reason for dumping you was?
BTW, normally I would have butted out by now, but I'm bored, so just warning ya that I don't know half of what we're talking about right now. Like I said, never had a GF. :)
Maybe I'll learn something...
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Get another one who has lots of coin :old:
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No reason to ask, I'll find out sooner or later via Facebook.
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well I am lucky to be on an awesome relationship for 2 years and 3 months now but one thing that helped me in a bad moment is that i discovered queen and listened to it for whole days, was like therapy!
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:rofl
Queen +1
Sitting in Maccys waiting to go to work :)
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Tell her you want the fuel money back that you spent taking her flying.
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now that would be the definition of mercenary
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
If a girl dumps you, do not ask why, do not make any attempt to keep her. Do not ask her friends about her, never call her.
This will go against your very nature and you may slip up but you must do this for 3 simple reasons.
You will not likely find "the one" at such a young age, you can try but they are bound to end up being temporary at least until you reach your mid to late twenties if not older.
You must keep your dignity. If you do not, you will absolutely lose the girl and your self respect both.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
The more desperately you chase something, the more desperately it runs away from you. Whether you end up moving on or having a chance to reconcile, both hinge on the same exact action. You have to go on and be OK without them.
You do not have to be a jerk. The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy.
So go on and live your life without them and remember a lot of old men also think about how nice it might be to be alone.
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Jimson that is just about the smartest thing I have heard, or read. I wish like h311 I had heard that when I was but a youngster. You are completely correct, I am now almost, well actually bucking 40, and the way you put that is one of the best things, and ways to put it.
That and my dad,s piece of brilliance at my wedding reception, he said," Son I didn't know know what happiness was till I got married". He took a long drink of scotch, and continued,"then it was too "F"ing late"
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
If a girl dumps you, do not ask why, do not make any attempt to keep her. Do not ask her friends about her, never call her.
This will go against your very nature and you may slip up but you must do this for 3 simple reasons.
You will not likely find "the one" at such a young age, you can try but they are bound to end up being temporary at least until you reach your mid to late twenties if not older.
You must keep your dignity. If you do not, you will absolutely lose the girl and your self respect both.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
The more desperately you chase something, the more desperately it runs away from you. Whether you end up moving on or having a chance to reconcile, both hinge on the same exact action. You have to go on and be OK without them.
You do not have to be a jerk. The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy.
So go on and live your life without them and remember a lot of old men also think about how nice it might be to be alone.
Agreed
If it does not work out screw it and move on.
Tell her you want the fuel money back that you spent taking her flying.
:rofl That's funny :rofl
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Comes from a lot a painful experience and regrets.
Would add one other thing, if you feel and act like you are nothing without a certain person in your life, ask your self who would want to be with a "nothing"?
It's easier said than done and you may have to fake it til you make it but it's the only way.
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Take her friend for a flight :D
Oh and don't stress too much...It probably hurts a bit but that is more pride than anything....quite seriously if a girl can't take you for who you are and has to resort to lies you are much better off...all happens for a reason...sometimes you question it but then you look back at times and go ..aaaahhhhhhhhhhh
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
This is good advice....
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And thats why I like being a loner :lol
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Jimsons obviously right...
any way go get a girl that wants to have fun with you..no point being with one that dont.
PS the fun is sorting the wheat from the chaff if you want to get your oats
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"My old man told me, before he left this sh-ty world, never chase busses or women, you'll always be left behind" :aok
(http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z207/Pimpzdog/Harley_davidson_and_the_marlboro_man_movie_poster.jpg)
Life has its ups and downs it'll be cool.
The shadow proves the sun shines and all that.
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she told me I remind her of her old boyfriend to much.
WOW, you behaved just like her last 17 YO BF?
Go figure. :noid
She's not comfortable dating men, suggest she find herself a good girlfriend.
Then, if you get another invite to come over, GO!
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Tup
Jimson nailed it. The way you comport yourself during this time will define you in regards to other girls that may only be marginally interested in you as well. Act like a mature, self confident, and well adjusted man and you'll come out WAY ahead.
Also you are one of the most intelligent, mature, and well rounded, young man I've ever known. A quality one will come along if it's in the cards if not.. get a dog (canine companion) and play the field.
Oh and don't be the jerk I was back in my younger days. It might be funny at the time but if you have any semblance of a soul you'll eventually regret it. Well... in some cases. Some of them are still funny :devil
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"A great love is like a good memory, when it's there and you know it's there, but it's just out of your reach, it can be all that you think about. You can focus on it and try and force it, but the more you do the more you seem to push it away. But if you're patient and you hold still, well maybe, just maybe, it'll come to you." - B.B.
Still young, don't expect to find much in terms of "stable relations". It's easy for people to jump in to a relationship not knowing the true person they're getting into with if it's rushed, and all teen relationships are rushed. S--- happens and life goes on, may seem bad, but there's always someone else out there feeling the same way. :)
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Found a girl that I really liked, and we talked for awhile and I asked her to be my girlfriend. (This was like a week ago) Hung out a few times last week and she seemed to have fun - I even took her flying
Then today she asked me to come over to her house and she told me I remind her of her old boyfriend to much.
(http://blogi.newsweek.pl/wp-content/uploads/Untitled-1.jpg)
OK maybe it isn't THAT bad.
did her ex have his own plane?
just think of how lucky you are, young, single, find a girl that likes to fly, and fly her around, nothing better than a girlfriend that likes the same thing you like!
or you could just play with the kittens!
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I don't see why not - just venting.
I am but an anonymous internet poster
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Well if a girl talk to you for a few minutes and then says she'll be your girlfriend..... expect it to be fleeting. lol
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So all I have to do to get rid of my woman is to act like her ex!? Brillant!!!! :banana: Happy days are here again....................
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So all I have to do to get rid of my woman is to act like her ex!? Brillant!!!! :banana: Happy days are here again....................
it's either that or some lime, a shovel, a big plastic bag, a secluded spot, and a friend to help you
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So let me get this straight, if I act like my wife's ex she'll dump me?! (http://i279.photobucket.com/albums/kk121/TheAmish/Brilliant.png)
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Just to show you my appreciation Tupac, I'm sending you my instructional video of "How To be A Pimp in 8 Easy Steps" Now get out there and get yo pimp on my man :rock
Caution: Video may contain information that could lead to marriage, children, 2 morgages and an ugly mother-n-law.
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Just to show you my appreciation Tupac, I'm sending you my instructional video of "How To be A Pimp in 8 Easy Steps" Now get out there and get yo pimp on my man :rock
Caution: Video may contain information that could lead to marriage, children, 2 morgages and an ugly mother-n-law.
:rofl :rofl
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Well if a girl talk to you for a few minutes and then says she'll be your girlfriend..... expect it to be fleeting. lol
It was probably a week before I asked to be my girlfriend
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It was probably a week before I asked to be my girlfriend
my girlfriend recently gave me the boot as well. i tell ya, learning to do everything lefty was tough, but im catchin on.
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
If a girl dumps you, do not ask why, do not make any attempt to keep her. Do not ask her friends about her, never call her.
This will go against your very nature and you may slip up but you must do this for 3 simple reasons.
You will not likely find "the one" at such a young age, you can try but they are bound to end up being temporary at least until you reach your mid to late twenties if not older.
You must keep your dignity. If you do not, you will absolutely lose the girl and your self respect both.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
The more desperately you chase something, the more desperately it runs away from you. Whether you end up moving on or having a chance to reconcile, both hinge on the same exact action. You have to go on and be OK without them.
You do not have to be a jerk. The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy.
So go on and live your life without them and remember a lot of old men also think about how nice it might be to be alone.
+1 :aok
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
If a girl dumps you, do not ask why, do not make any attempt to keep her. Do not ask her friends about her, never call her.
This will go against your very nature and you may slip up but you must do this for 3 simple reasons.
You will not likely find "the one" at such a young age, you can try but they are bound to end up being temporary at least until you reach your mid to late twenties if not older.
You must keep your dignity. If you do not, you will absolutely lose the girl and your self respect both.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
The more desperately you chase something, the more desperately it runs away from you. Whether you end up moving on or having a chance to reconcile, both hinge on the same exact action. You have to go on and be OK without them.
You do not have to be a jerk. The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy.
So go on and live your life without them and remember a lot of old men also think about how nice it might be to be alone.
Well said.
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Son, I've done them all (girls & relationship alike).
How ever you want to twist it, if there's a doubt ... there's no doubt. Please be thankfull that she told you upstraight, I respect that :salute Anyway, if it doesn't click, it doesn't click! You can't buy love either. Maybe your plane get get you laid ... once, but at the end of the day no car/plane/house can replace what is shining out of you ... your charisma. If it's weak, work on it. I banged the hottest girls when I was in HS/university using by dad's lifestyle being a moron ... and the hottest/richest being a construction worker living in a dump when in my 30s, without a buck in my wallet. :old:
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I want a girlfriend that likes me for me.
I'm with you on that Frenchy, I respect her decision to tell me too.
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Meh, your young, it happens. Don't try and get back with her, let her discover whether she's made a mistake or not.
Do not do what I did when my first marriage imploded - I "did" as many of her friends that I could, and told her each and every time. Was fun, but not fulfilling lol.....
You'll find "the one" when your not looking, so dont jump into a "serious" relationship at your age Tup, do what you want to do, if she tags along, and likes you for you, she'll stay.
Wurz (bitter, stubborn, self opinionated, ugly but happily married :D)
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Bud stop looking for a GF have fun enjoy life dont get infected with the couda wooda shoulda's. The right woman will find you mine did.
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my girlfriend recently gave me the boot as well. i tell ya, learning to do everything lefty was tough, but im catchin on.
Hmm... :angel:
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Losing a girlfriend sucks, and it can feel like you'll be forever alone. However, this is far from true. Consider this, at some point before this relationship, you were single. We can assume that the difference in the number of availible (not crazy, sick, or hurtful) girls is negligible between then and now. Since that is the case, there is no reason that you cannot get another girlfriend because you haven't had a mental breakdown and there are plenty available.
However, as other posters have mentioned, a relationship is a great deal of work. You're still a kid, don't rush into things- it's hard to go back. I certainly miss being a little kid, so I've decided to enjoy myself while this period of my life lasts (while still preparing for the future, of course). Sure, I'll fool around with girls, but I know it's just that, fooling around. Once I realized that, it became much less stressful.
To conclude, just have fun, stop worrying if you get a breakup. Imagine if you fell into a depression every time you fell off your bike as a kid- you'd never learn to ride it. So if you break up with a girl, don't sweat it. As long as nobody got hurt, it was all in good fun. That's what relationships at this age should be: fun.
-Penguin
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Hate to see what he will post the first time he gets laid.....
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Hate to see what he will post the first time he gets laid.....
Me?
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Do not do what I did when my first marriage imploded - I "did" as many of her friends that I could, and told her each and every time. Was fun, but not fulfilling lol.....
I hope she didn't have many guy friends. :O
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here ya go Tup
(http://axisvsallies.com/albums/userpics/10001/We_Can_Still_Be_Friends.jpg)
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well Tupac, you got lucky IMO. my girlfriend from 2 years ago broke up with me, then started cussing me out and yelling at me like i broke up with her...
all i can think of that experience now is...
...what the hell?
other stuff aside, you'll get over it. kinda like when your cat dies or something, its sad at first, but eventually your over the fact it happened.
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personally in a situation like that the first rule is DO NOT LOOK FOR or TAKE ADVISES you know yourself, you will know what you really want, if you don't spend time figuring out
and yes this IS a advise :D let the paradox begin
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Me?
If he is directing that towards you, you and I will hop in your Cessna and pay him a visit in the Netherlands. :D
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Tupac let me tell you this from wisdom, i just had this chat with my son whos a senior in school. Don't be concerned with chasing girls around that's what they want you to do. Never chase a girl it shows a weakness to them that some can and will use to manipulate you into doing crap that's not really you. Tupac be yourself, keep doing that and that special girl will find you. when you look for a girl it's because your lonely and most of the time you end up settling for someone of lesser value because they fill that void, Dude your young and learning to be a Pilot keep living YOUR life be happy with who you are and trust me she will find you and you will be glad she did. Best friends before lovers always makes for a great lasting relationship, remember that.
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WAIT! I know just what to to! Ask her on one more plane ride, then push her out! :devil
-Penguin
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czRYQcTocao&feature=related
be sure to make this joke in your future date
(the language is portuguese, the pilot took his friend for a ride and then pretended to fade out :D)
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nahh Peng... take the doors off, tell her it's more fun with them off, then do a break turn. Swear you broke up with her and she jumped. Plausible deniability :devil
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Found a girl that I really liked, and we talked for awhile and I asked her to be my girlfriend. (This was like a week ago) Hung out a few times last week and she seemed to have fun - I even took her flying
Then today she asked me to come over to her house and she told me I remind her of her old boyfriend to much.
(http://blogi.newsweek.pl/wp-content/uploads/Untitled-1.jpg)
OK maybe it isn't THAT bad.
Here is what you do. Get a better plane (an F16 will do just fine) and take one of her girlfriends flying in it. If at all possible, buzz her and her new boyfriend in their FORD tempo a few times. Muahahahahaah :rofl
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Here is what you do. Get a better plane (an F16 will do just fine) and take one of her girlfriends flying in it. If at all possible, buzz her and her new boyfriend in their FORD tempo a few times. Muahahahahaah :rofl
Why am I not suprised this would come out of your sewer? :O
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I want a girlfriend that likes me for me.
I'm with you on that Frenchy, I respect her decision to tell me too.
Keep your chin up Tupac. Aleast she told you up front, not after 14 years.
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Why am I not suprised this would come out of your sewer? :O
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Heh, you drive a FORD Tempo, don;t you :cry
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"Disregard harlots, aquire currency." :rock
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I can swear I hear Eric Carmen singing "All By Myself" in the background. :D
Get a hold of yourself, dude. Easier said than done, I know but there really are thousands of girls out there. They're everywhere. Keep asking until one says yes. Trying too hard for a girl that has rejected you will never win her over. Been there, done that and it just won't happen.
- signed, someone far worse off than you: a 45 year old guy without a girlfriend. :ahand
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Hate to see what he will post the first time he gets laid.....
He'll be like Reverend Jim from the tv series Taxi. Haha remeber
The episode when he was at college and ate the brownie, like that.
Tokenjo
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- signed, someone far worse off than you: a 45 year old guy without a girlfriend. :ahand
Ahh, yes, he should be giving advice on the subject :lol
J/K :devil
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And you should always remember the old saying," I still miss my ex, but my aim is improving."
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Ahh, yes, he should be giving advice on the subject :lol
J/K :devil
Don't have one mainly for lack of effort. Worn out from chasing all the ones I couldn't have. :bhead
At least I have Aces High. And Old Fashioneds. :cheers:
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I can swear I hear Eric Carmen singing "All By Myself" in the background. :D
Get a hold of yourself, dude. Easier said than done, I know but there really are thousands of girls out there. They're everywhere. Keep asking until one says yes. Trying too hard for a girl that has rejected you will never win her over. Been there, done that and it just won't happen.
- signed, someone far worse off than you: a 45 year old guy without a girlfriend. :ahand
Hey, could of been a lot worse, he might of actually gotten what he wanted, right? :devil
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Don't have one mainly for lack of effort. Worn out from chasing all the ones I couldn't have. :bhead
At least I have Aces High. And Old Fashioneds. :cheers:
Don't forget friends girlfriends as well :devil
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OK boys, I'm 47, here is some advice for you.
If a girl dumps you, do not ask why, do not make any attempt to keep her. Do not ask her friends about her, never call her.
This will go against your very nature and you may slip up but you must do this for 3 simple reasons.
You will not likely find "the one" at such a young age, you can try but they are bound to end up being temporary at least until you reach your mid to late twenties if not older.
You must keep your dignity. If you do not, you will absolutely lose the girl and your self respect both.
Old men are often still haunted, not by the one's that left, but what fools they were trying to hold onto them.
The more desperately you chase something, the more desperately it runs away from you. Whether you end up moving on or having a chance to reconcile, both hinge on the same exact action. You have to go on and be OK without them.
You do not have to be a jerk. The opposite of love is not hate, it is apathy.
So go on and live your life without them and remember a lot of old men also think about how nice it might be to be alone.
I wish I had heard this kind of advice along time ago instead of having to learn it first hand.
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"Disregard harlots, aquire currency." :rock
^^ Still best advice here imho. Cause when you do the 2nd, the 1st will always come back to ya! :old:
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If a girl breaks up with you just tell her OK. It's all fine as long as you can hook up with her friend.... I mean it is the only reason you hooked up with her is to have a chance to meet her friend. :P
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When a girl dumps you just say, "WHEW! Finally!" :cool:
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This thread is still alive? Really?
Some lonely folks out there, I guess.
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This thread is still alive? Really?
Some lonely folks out there, I guess.
You have not read the thread and posted. It's obvious from what you posted.
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A funny story from my younger days when I was a king sized jerk. I was dating a girl and realized she was going to split up soon. So I started flirting with some new ones. Girl one calls me and asks me to come over after work on Friday so I know what's coming. We're sitting in my car and she starts giving me this long winded speech and I start looking at my watch. She keeps blathering and I finally look at her and say 'Is this going to take much longer?' 'Why.. do you have something to do?' 'Well yes, as a matter of fact, I have a date in 30 minutes and I don't want to be late'
Funny how quickly a woman can switch from the 'it's not you it's me' and 'you're a great guy but' speech to calling you every name in the book and throwing stuff at you :devil
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I have nothing to say in regards to this topic Tupac because Family Guy already so brilliantly summed it up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OZgDvuq2mKo
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While I'd agree that it's not a big deal if you break up with your girlfriend, the end of that song is quite twisted. The idea that problems acquired during high school dissapear upon graduation is false. Depression, drugs, abuse, and a myriad of mental disorders are can all use earlier intervention.
-Penguin
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While I'd agree that it's not a big deal if you break up with your girlfriend, the end of that song is quite twisted. The idea that problems acquired during high school dissapear upon graduation is false. Depression, drugs, abuse, and a myriad of mental disorders are can all use earlier intervention.
-Penguin
You're half-right, those problems don't disapear, they just pale ghastly to what is yet ahead. Enjoy the short golden years while they last. :aok :ahand
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While I'd agree that it's not a big deal if you break up with your girlfriend, the end of that song is quite twisted. The idea that problems acquired during high school dissapear upon graduation is false. Depression, drugs, abuse, and a myriad of mental disorders are can all use earlier intervention.
-Penguin
:lol oh okay.
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You're half-right, those problems don't disapear, they just pale ghastly to what is yet ahead. Enjoy the short golden years while they last. :aok :ahand
If you let things sit and stew they will get worse. If you nip them in the bud, they can be cured or at least mitigated.
-Penguin