reeb.... I also use the FFB2... and while not totally eliminating nose bobble at slow speeds, i have managed to make it more bearable.
pitch/roll 100% scaled across the board with deadband/dampers set as low as possible (you'll find it more crisp, and not slushing thru rolls - it'll still present a bit of nose bobble - but that may be due to combat trim for all i know). the dead/damp are set very very low... a couple hairs up... experiement to find your comfort level.
rudder... 100% scaled across with dead/damp sliders about 2/3 way up. twisty sticks, while more convenient than a keyboard or other j/s assigned function are still no match for rudder pedals.
throttle.. set it for however you feel comfortable with the incr/decr in throttle. Mine's set a bit up for dead/damp to provide more precise control (i.e., less senstivity).
FFB effects - I only utilize stall and buffet, both set around 35%