I fell into the AVA my first go round in this game. It had a somewhat less than stellar reputation then but I found that 95% of the regs back then, if you were really trying, were very helpful and accommodating. Or maybe they just welcomed another target. Who knows.
Back for round two a couple of years later. Dropped into the TA, *crickets chirping*, Umm.. okay I'll look into the MA's and the first thing I see is a purse fight going on in channel *oh geez YAWWWWN*, cruise on over to the AVA and it was empty as well. So I relied on my old tried and true method of getting someone in there. Yes I upped a bomber. Within 30 minutes there were some old faces I remembered, some new ones I kind of knew, and it was, and has been, great fun.
People switching sides for balance, passing <S>'s back and forth, attempting NOT to HO if possible, and generally enjoying themselves and each other. Then I noticed something going on that I really liked. The staff tossing out ideas and new scenarios that kept it interesting. Jet week was a fantastic switch from the norm and everybody in there yukked it up all week (as far as I saw). Did a couple of interesting scenarios then last week we had WWI battles. I think, to a man, everybody thoroughly enjoyed themselves. You might have noticed some of the pics posted in this forum and the AVA forum. I died on every single sortie and finally got my Camel turning the last night of the scenario. But I died almost every time chuckling at my own ineptitude.
I would never have climbed into one of those coffins on my own but I wound up having a blast and a bunch of new folks came in there and seemed to be having equally as much fun. I wasn't a fan of the 109 until about a month ago. Now I'm trying to learn all of it's nuances and I've grown pretty fond of it.
I would not attempt or even suggest that the AVA is a 'better' place to play the game but it fits how I personally enjoy playing. And, like JHerne said, I just never found it that much fun to run a Pony up against B17s and so on.
I'm a big believer in letting people find their own fun and their own methods of having fun. So, if the MA's or the Dueling arena are your cup of tea, more power to you and enjoy yourself. However, if you're burned out on the MA's and are looking for something different with a great group of players who are pretty much exceptional cartoon pilots, stick your head in there and give it a go. You might just find that thrill and sense of fun you got back when you first started playing. It's worth a shot right?