Zigrat-
What you are really describing is the fresh leaving the daisy. When you first enter a sim (or any activity) it's the excitement of knowing whether you measure up that motivates you to play so much.
Analogy: at age 30 I discovered running. It wasn't long before I could run with the club in town. They weren't elite by national standards by any means, but were pretty good on a state level. I began to travel to races with them, and enjoyed a mercurial rise in performance. It wasn't long before I became a challenger to win in most races I entered. I was euphoric, and began spending more and more time running (85 mile per week), committing more time to planning my training, strategizing my races, and traveling.
This I did for years, and loved it, but eventually I noticed something was missing. When I lined up to begin a race I no longer felt the high pulse, the anxious desire to look into the eyes of the competitors near me, or any sense of mystery. The fact was in the six years I was competitive I had explored every facet of the running game available to me (I raced everything from 1 mile to marathon), and the thrill of the unknown was gone.
I had, in my pursuit of "being the best" lost sight of the very essence of made running my passion for so long- the simple joy of running. I had made the best lifelong friends I have ever had, seen many sites I wouldn't have (I ran the 100th Boston Marathon), and enjoyed health benefits I would never have realized. Yet there I was, ready to give it up because I didn't enjoy racing anymore.
It wasn't because running wasn't real enough- it was. It wasn't because it wasn't challenging- it was and is. I lost my desire for running because I was familiar enough with it that I no longer had the great running unknown before me, I was established as a runner both in my mind and in those around me. I had reached the limits of my physical ability, I knew where the boundaries lay.
If you think making changes to this sim (changes that will drive people away) will change how you feel, think about what I've written. Remember how you used to feel when you started, how often you played, think about why that is. I started down that path here before, and I had to reel myself in. I don't want to burn myself out of the one thing I do now that gives me release from my real life. I choose to take a carefree approach to this game for good reason.
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