Thanks for the answers Guppy.
In that case I'd gladly make an exception in my thinking concerning the frequency of flap use for the P-38 pilots.
But there are still more questions I've brought up during the discussion, and one I'd like to hear your opinion about is perhaps the conditions of the P-38 pilots, and especially influential P-38 aces, were quite different from other fighter pilots or groups. Rookies tend to follow whatever practices their superiors are doing, and quickly catch on to certain methods of flying and fighting that are advocated by their officers.
Again, P-38s were not the only planes with Fowlers, nor were they the only planes that could find a use for combat positions. There are reports and tales of P-51 or P-47 pilots, upon some occasions using flaps for fighting, and even some LW aces were especially famous for their flying skills, including a tendency to drop into a low-speed battle and frequently using flaps for combat. And yet, I find it hard to believe any of the other pilots of other countries/planes made a regular use of such flap positions, or even advocate or promote them to their underlings.
Like others have mentioned P-38 combat flap positions were sanctioned at 250mph IAS which is a relatively very slow speed, considering the speeds the other USAAF fighters were fighting against the Luftwaffe in high-alt escort missions.
I am guessing it has a lot to do with typical conditions (probably low altitude engagements and mix-ups) the P-38s were operating under, as compared to the other fighters the USAAF were using between '43 and '45, because clearly, such combat practices would not be fit for high-alt engagements where fighters developed speeds quickly.
What is your opinion on this?