There are no honest players who fall under stick stirring.
Anything that is a blatant stick stirring will cause control locks for everyone with no exceptions.
If somebody just mashes on the controls to cause irregular and unexpected movements that does not trigger control lock, and somebody else has trouble shooting at him, then by all means he's doing a good job in evading enemy fire in whatever way he can.
Such movements hurts speed and stability of the plane. A slight detour and he's cannon fodder, just as he'll ever be.
Since the guy who tries to follow enemy movement will always have to watch first, and then respond, it is only natural that as a result he will be changing control input faster than the target plane, in order to catch up with his movements.
Nobody forces anyone to follow every enemy movement. All you gotta do is know where he'll end up, and then wait there. If there is a danger of control lock, and yet still the pilot chooses to risk it to try and not let go of the enemy plane, then there's basically no one to blame but himself. He is neither 'honest' nor 'innocent'. He knew the consequences, he chose to ignore it.
Frankly, since starting out AH with version 1.05, the 'dont move your controls so quickly' has not for once, been a problem for me.
Perhaps we should consider that the only reason it seems to do more harm than good, is because its everyday functions are invisible to us, while only its drawbacks are ever visible.