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« Reply #105 on: July 03, 2005, 05:21:13 AM »
Kweassa Thanks Bud, I'm doing the best I can... it's gonna be a tuff day for alotta folks here...Tessa touched many hearts.

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« Reply #106 on: July 03, 2005, 01:00:05 PM »
Mac,

Send me a e-mail through the bbs. I'm available to talk as well buddy. I can call you if you'd like.
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« Reply #107 on: July 03, 2005, 05:00:43 PM »
Mav and all,

It's a tuff day all.  It shouldn't be like this.

Like trying to swallow a Softball... the biggest lump in the throat.

Kim has it the worse.

Hard day. Just tears,

mac

fwrede@cox.net.

Chit I'm a crying mess... trying to get my watermelon together and call Kim... Bad Day today...

God I need strenght...

Hurts deep...Being Tessa's Birthday and she's in the ground.
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« Reply #108 on: July 03, 2005, 05:05:06 PM »
My heart goes to you as I get in touch with my own losses.
My wife and I read your post and will keep you and your sister in prayers from our distant Quebec.
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« Reply #109 on: July 03, 2005, 05:28:41 PM »
My best to you and yours Mac. My family and I will pray for you.
May God bring you solace in this tragic and heartfelt time in your life.

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« Reply #110 on: July 04, 2005, 09:34:50 AM »
If it was ever possible, if I could.
I'd give my life up to let Tessa live hers.

Yesterday was beyond hard to deal with.  Today just as hard.

Tessa enjoyed the fact that fireworks was after her Birthday...She made it seem it was just for her...we never told her different.

Tonight I'll lit a White Candle for Tessa...

Kim and Amanda are taking it really hard... guess the first year is the hardest.

Trying again to be the strongest... Kim has a CD they did for Tessa's Funeral...Pics of Tessa from Birth to just days before... 2 songs really tore me up..."Calling on All Angels and Would you know my Name if I saw you in Heaven".

Heart Broke is not even close.

Time will Heal,

mac

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« Reply #111 on: July 04, 2005, 09:48:38 AM »
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"Would you know my Name if I saw you in Heaven".


I cannot listen to that song at the best of times...always brings tears to my eyes.

Still thinking about all of you man.  I hope there is some relief from the pain you are all feeling soon.
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« Reply #112 on: July 04, 2005, 10:14:04 AM »
Takes alotta tears to get though this...I've cried a River in just the last weeks. Which is less than Kim has cried.

It's like still walking in a fog...  a Bad dream that you just wanna wake up from and everything is okay...

If you have ever collapsed sobbing hard from the heart... then you are near where I am now.

mac

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« Reply #113 on: July 04, 2005, 10:18:37 AM »
Curval,

  There's 2 songs I can't play the whole way thru on a Guitar... One is Claptons "Would you know me in Heaven" The other is "Amazing Grace".

Played for a lil over 16 years.

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« Reply #114 on: July 04, 2005, 01:18:48 PM »
Mac,
My heartfelt condolences, sir. I wish I had the vocabulary to put in the words most appropriate for this great loss. Your pain is quite clear and in time it will get better (as hard as that is to believe).
Your pain so great, I was at a loss to post til now. I'm sorry.
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~UPDATE~
« Reply #115 on: August 09, 2005, 07:51:40 AM »
Article published Saturday, August 6, 2005.

Toledo man convicted of fleeing fatal accident


A South Toledo man who struck and killed a 9-year-old girl riding her bicycle on June 8 was convicted yesterday in Lucas County Common Pleas Court.

Steven Jones, 19, of 3339 Schneider Rd., pleaded no contest to failing to stop after an accident. He is facing the possibility of a five-year prison term when Judge James Jensen sentences him Sept. 9.

Tessa Wrede, of 2248 Byrneway Drive, was riding her bike in the 2300 block of South Byrne Road near Greengate Drive when she was hit by Jones’ vehicle. Jones, who was driving with a suspended license, fled the scene and was arrested later that day.

Jones’ girlfriend, Jennifer Wilbourne of Maumee, told police she was driving the car when the accident occurred. She was charged with one count of allowing an unlicensed driver to drive her car, wrongful entrustment, and obstructing official business.

Just a possibility of 5 years...

mac

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« Reply #116 on: August 09, 2005, 10:24:45 AM »
Hi Mac,

This won't offer much comfort, but having worked with convicts and ex-convicts, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Although the sentence seems trivial compared to the consequences of his actions, he now has, and probably always will have a felony conviction with jail time on his record. While he will be out of jail in less than five years (no one these days serves the max, unless they really mess up or have a history of running or escaping), that conviction will follow him the rest of his life especially when it comes to applying for jobs and so on. He has in fact, automatically locked himself out of several positions including all the bonded trades. Also keep in mind that time in state jails is almost never "easy time" especially for a guy with no street smarts and no prior convictions. The majority of "square johns" in jail I've met with, spend their first few months in a state of constant fear, some of them with good reason. For instance in our local county lock-up, you better be either tough enough to protect yourself (and that needs to be plenty tough) or hooked up or you are essentially prey to the bigger fish. Having your food stolen on a regular basis is just the beginning of the torment. It's not unheard of for a man to go into prison for the first time to serve a two or three year term and come out with a death sentence.

Either way, Martha Stewart's experience is definitely not the norm.

What I hope will offer more comfort is that fact that because there is a just God, although justice is never entirely served on this side of the veil there is perfect justice on the other side and there is a judgment that no man will ever escape from.

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« Reply #117 on: August 09, 2005, 10:28:18 AM »
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Article published Saturday, August 6, 2005.

Toledo man convicted of fleeing fatal accident


A South Toledo man who struck and killed a 9-year-old girl riding her bicycle on June 8 was convicted yesterday in Lucas County Common Pleas Court.

Steven Jones, 19, of 3339 Schneider Rd., pleaded no contest to failing to stop after an accident. He is facing the possibility of a five-year prison term when Judge James Jensen sentences him Sept. 9.

Tessa Wrede, of 2248 Byrneway Drive, was riding her bike in the 2300 block of South Byrne Road near Greengate Drive when she was hit by Jones’ vehicle. Jones, who was driving with a suspended license, fled the scene and was arrested later that day.

Jones’ girlfriend, Jennifer Wilbourne of Maumee, told police she was driving the car when the accident occurred. She was charged with one count of allowing an unlicensed driver to drive her car, wrongful entrustment, and obstructing official business.

Just a possibility of 5 years...

mac


Mac
 Sorry to hear all this again man....  5 years is not enough. This guy should be treated just like any other murderer.

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« Reply #118 on: August 09, 2005, 10:41:11 AM »
that sentence is absoultly pathetic, and a slap in the face of justice.:mad: :eek:

mac, sir, my prayers are still with you and your entire family.


just told co-worker the whole story, and i just cant get over how royally ****** up that is he only got 5 years. my co-worker sends his sympathies also.

i hope that schmuck gets his bellybutton pounded raw in prison.
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« Reply #119 on: August 09, 2005, 10:47:38 AM »
Thanx Seagoon.

I just have the fear that his Lawyer will swing some deal and this kid will walk with just probation.  But then again Kim will be there and I believe she will have her say during sentencing. I would like to be there but then again I don't think that I could maintain if I got within leaping distance of this kid.

It's a bad deal on both sides of the fence. If he or Tessa had been just 2 minutes slower... but there a purpose behind all of this and I may never know what that is until it's my time.

I have no idea why sentencing has been pushed out to September 9th.

Again Andy, thanks for the support for Kim and I throughout all of this.

mac