I remain eternally suspicious of any ideology/ government/system/culture which operates on a premise of accepting converts/citizens/members, while simultaneously threatening to kill or punish or imprison any who choose to move away...i.e. Wahhabist Islam & Sharia Law, the former USSR, the current DPRK, etc...
What I can't grasp is how the people at the top of such groups can maintain the self-delusion of their righteousness, while the very population they are dependent on for their power struggles mightily to get away as fast as they can? Why would you even want those people to stay? Doesn't the existance of laws which criminalize thoughts or questions or challenges to authority suggest that the system might be flawed? One might argue that a simple comparison of the pipeline of individuals moving from Western values to the rigidity if Sharia Islam, vs. those attempting to leave that system and make a life in the midst of Western values would be an interesting indicator of validity?
It almost seems some kind of pathology, to be so disconnected from the reality of the population. Or perhaps it's simply the ease by which one can label dissatisfaction, or independent thinking, as insanity or criminal tendencies or sedition. Maybe the failure to understand has less to do with specific philosophical differences, and really comes down to what "freedom" actually means to an individual or group. For us, freedom means a near limitless ability to make independent choices about life, work, faith, etc...while in these other societies, the only freedom they may understand or accept might be the freedom to be like everyone else, or simply to choose what village you'll live in. I don't mean to trivialize, only to suggest that some people may be culturally incapable of understanding our flavor of freedom, and what the word can potentially mean for them. Some may not ever want the freedom we demand...maybe they're too insecure otherwise, and appreciate a rigid system which precludes the need for independent thought?
In the final analysis of my own worldview, if you're not free to leave, you were never free for staying.
This leads me to wonder if certain systems only pay lip service to politically acceptable concepts like freedom, while the truth behind them is as old and dirty as human history...to keep those on the top, at the top...and absolutley nothing more. If you can convince the little people that they have all the freedom they'll ever need, you can stay in control.
If this is so, and the cultural gap is too wide, and moral relativism is invalid, what do we do? Turn away from that which we call inhuman and unjust and let others live as they will, or insist on imposing our way? Will taking a live-and-let-live strategy work, if the other side's strategy is "sooner or later, the world MUST be ours and those who will not comply must die"? What happens if that philosophy finally gains enough strength to begin imposing that ideology on the whole world? Not like a similar chain of events never happened before...
Or the last possibility...we are all terribly misinformed, on both sides, by the fact that we ALL get our information second hand, and from unreliable sources. Certainly, I know I can't trust any Western media outlet to NOT inject it's own flavor of political leanings into the mix, and I'm damned sure outlets like al-Jazeera are just as bound to the expectations of their customer base as Western outlets are to theirs.
I, for one, have no confidence anymore in my ability to sort wheat from chaff...