I guess it's all in how the individual views it. I really didn't think it was possible, seeing as how it's pretty cut & dried. But Culero sees it a little differently than I do; we see it very close to the same, but not exactly. Toad & I vary by about the same degree. Holden, you putting up one State as an example & we are talking about the entire nation of the Confederacy, (actually a superbly highjacked thread entirely by accident of course).
I have said it before, what is in your face obvious to me, isn't to someone else & vice/versa. We will never agree, but I respect your opinions.
I will have my second natl. flag, it's the flag under which my counties volunteers whipped the Union regulars to a stand still & routed their advance, saving Little Rock for another year. A mere few hundred men against thousands.
If I choose to fly it, I will show propper respect & fly the flag of the United States of America first. You just have to understand, we have a fighting spirit here that runs deep, a lot of the suburban areas of the U.S. are what the southerners used to be. We wave at people we don't even know driving down the back country roads, we're hospitable to strangers & will stop to help a child or a woman in distress, sometimes even a man if he looks out of place. We will also go toe to toe with 10 to 1 odds if we feel the need.
Some people call us rednecks, mostly because of the outdoor labor a lot of us do, but the southern style can be found in Wyoming & Montana & Oregon; all sorts of quiet places where people are friendly & will speak to wrong numbers on the phone like a friend. I just keep in the back of my mind what my South African partner told me once, "There are bananas everywhere Brent" I knew that, I just needed reminded of it. There are racial tensions in the south, of course. But it seemed more prevalent in the urban north. There was segregation in the south (the north too in places) for decades, & Reggie White brought out some very interesting points in a book he wrote concerning how the negros were better off under segregation. It's an interesting read. Yes, it's all in the eye of the beholder.