Against all odds, sailor, you've also managed to mis-read me.
The US's trend toward federalization, or whatever term you choose to use for a central government is not just the US's, it's everywhere. That's why you can't find a modern example. This is a global issue, not an American one. Big modern societies simply do not exist without it. If they had, I'm sure you would have rubbed it in everyone's face long ago.
As far as me not wanting the choice, I never once said that I don't want an alternative. I never once said that I like taxes. I only said that they were necessary.
Of course I would prefer to live without taxes. Of course I would prefer not to be supporting useless, inefficient federal programs and social crutches for members of society who will contribute nothing to the world besides solid waste and CO2. Of course I would prefer to permanently silence the prayer in school question by having the freedom to circumvent the issue entirely. Homeschooling is a questionable method, as our friend Hawklore proves on a weekly basis, but I'd never want to rob anybody of that choice. Of course I would want all of these freedoms for everyone. It would be a better place where people are not forced, by virtue of a lack of an alternative, to have their kids educated in a system controlled by a big, inefficient and disjointed central government.
That, however, is just not realistic, and that is what this argument is about. This concept of self-government is extremely desireable. The problem is, it just won't be able to sustain our current living conditions, to say nothing of making them better. There is no evidence that it would work. There is no viable way to maintain it. There is no viable way to even start this thing, as you'll need centralization, of some sort, merely to oust our current system. Then, finally, you have the issue of human imperfection, IE, the liklihood that you'll be engaged in a sniper battle with the first guy who wants what you've got.
I'll repeat myself now, I don't like taxes. I've just never seen a way to effectively avoid a central infra-structure. Unfortunately, neither you nor anyone else has not proven that it is feasible. The day that humanity evolves into a state where we can govern ourselves intuitively, without a need for external administration, I will be right there, minus the rifle, in support of it--provided that I don't have to give up the stuff or prospects I have today.