I strongly disagree with this rant. It is the community's responsibility to police unwanted, disrespectful and disruptive behavior for ourselves.
I will make one point and then generalize it to all such unwanted behaviors.
YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO TYPE IN CAPS 24/7. To most of us it means that you are yelling and is considered very rude. When I encounter these screamers, I try and politely ask them to turn the caps off. I may get help from other players, I may not. It is when this advise is blatantly ignored several times over for a substantial amount of time, that I begin to lose my patients with such a player. Instead of further wasting my time and energy, I choose the easy route and that is squelch.
Not only that, but you will find the community largely will choose to shun such players from their squads, missions and activities. If they wont listen to reason, we are left with very few courses of action. Eventually (hopefully), they will realize that they are not receiving assistance that is normally given to others and change the behavior.
Now, in order to gain acceptance, obviously the behavior must have changed. However, that alone does not always mend the relationship (depending on how blatant the refusal to conform was). But a thoughtful apology to those that were offended goes along way (as in life). I do not know if this a young player, but it doesn't really matter anyway. When your entire team is telling you something, maybe its time to shut up and listen.
There is one online currently that I will not help, clear, fly alongside nor listen to, simply because his actions were so severe and no apology or even an attempt at one was made to the community. We are not stupid people that easily forget who offended us 2-3 months ago.
My 2 cents
HB