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Clutz, over the years there have been many of us who have had the same complaints as you. You are right that sometimes it's so bad that you can't even merge.
Even so, it's hardly HiTech's fault. You can't coad basic decency... He could implement just about whatever function dreamed of and you would still find yourself ganged by one con after the other, after the other. That's not something HiTech can forcefully fix, even if he wanted to (and really, from a business perspective, I'm not sure he would even if he could--if 10 guys are picking your 1, that's 10 subscriptions to 1... Think about it.)
If you're sick and tired of it, there are a few things you can do:
1. Quit (and probably come back in a few weeks/months/years like many of us, including myself, have)
2. Blame yourself and your own bad SA and work to improve it (and probably not have as many fights in the process IMO)
3. Go into that DA you don't want to go into, work on getting better, and once you learn a few things, pass them on.
#3 is my personal choice, and I've seen it positively impact my own gameplay. Both with running into people I've helped who now put up a better fight, and with getting some "charitable concessions" from other players.
For example, tonight Bear76 picked me twice while I was in a good fight
in his Corsair. On my third flight I was again in a good fight, I again saw a Corsair show up, and you know what? The Corsair saw my icon, banked its wings and flew away.
Bear76 (and if this wasn't you, just roll with it
). There are many people who will do this for you.
Get a reputation for being someone willing to be part of the solution, and for being someone who tries to be fair, and you will from time to time get to see that solution, and receive that fairness. It won't save every sortie of yours from being a headache, but it will save some.
Sometimes you just need to come on here and vent, sure, but recognize it's not solving anything (and that perhaps you should go after us dweebs and not the CEO lol)