Well.
I am not an insider of anything in the AH community, and not likely to get my feelings hurt by someone giving me good advise in a rude way. But I would say, that if people do want to help someone the effort they waste being a wise bellybutton or a know it all is a shame. One thing I can say, is that I have done allot more helping in this game then being helped, it is very rewarding and much quicker if you are polite about it.
Better for the Karma too.
Thanks everyone for your help in this