I can't help but laugh every time I hear someone cry "sex addict", Everyone with a noodle is a sex addict. Man up and quit making excuses for yourself.
so not true.
people absolutely...... man and woman can be addicted to sex.
just like anything, one can be addicted to speed(going fast not the drug) drugs....alcohol....anything.
36 times..? Omg
yes sad to say that is the case, but only a small portion of what I put her through, I am extremely blessed and lucky to still have her in my life.
i believe that to be a conservative estimate.......an extremely conservative estimate!
no that's it brother....the times count is much higher though, you know of all people what kind of person I was to her, I believe in my heart when I stand before GOD this will be one of the only things I will have to answer for.
I married my wife when I was 20 and full of cum...I had no idea what marriage was or the vows I spoke of on the alter. I cheated on her 3 times in the first 2 years and regreted every minutes after that. The last 8 years I've been completely faithful to her. Our situations are different but yet very similiar, in the fact of how we neglected our wives. I neglected mine but not only playing the game, but doing the dishes once a week (when its done 5 or 6 times) and doing 1 load of laundry a week (when theres 8 or 9), never taking her out on dates, when we were asked to go join groups of people I said baby you know I don't like to go out with big groups, rarely helped the kids do homework, never asked her how her day was, never sent flowers to her work, or write her an occational poem like we did in school, never done anything for her unless I wanted sex basically I emotionally raped her to death. That movie I watched and that movie alone changed the way I look at everything. That man in that movie is me, and something just clicked in me that said I can't be that person anymore. I'm taking my little girl to huntsville Friday to buy her about 10 new outfits shes out grown about all her clothes, do you know how many times I've done that since shes been born 6 and 1/2 years ago.....zero.....I will forever be a student of Love from here on out, I don't think you will ever conquer the definition of love but I understand what your saying.
I've listed my computer on Ebay if anyone is interrested heres the link
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yup the more you explain the more I see....with my case though I didn't do dishes for over 10 years...or anything for that matter, she did everything in the house..I just went and tattooed and partied....sometimes I would bring her most often not though.
I know if there is hope for us, there is hope for you guys.
I use what I went through in my life for an example for people to learn from...I guess some people on the boards think I lie....honestly I don't care what people think, except for very few, FLOTSOM being one, and my wife being the other along with my kids.
I truly Hope You and her can get beyond this.