I'll second this. Offer help or shut your yap.
I absolutely did and am offerring sincere help... is that not obvious? Who else is emphasizing that someone new should find out what the best among us thinks? Obviously Bruv's advice carries much more weight than others, me, for example.
Listen to and learn from the best, find out who they are, that's my advice.
Also, note morfiend... an outstanding trainer for basic flying and fighter skills. Listening to him should also carry more weight, imho.
My first few months, I received so many opinions, most differring from others (and often conflicting), I was totally confused as to what to do and how to get better and was shot down so much I was getting dejected. It wasn't until I found out who the best pilots were that could fly a variety of aeroplanes (to get rid of bias for favorites), and listened to trainers such as morfiend, that the confusion dissipated and I made substantial progress. As you can see just in this thread, there is little consistancy and strong feelings from many. Again, my advice... find out who the best pilots are, find out who the official trainers are in the TA.... and listen to them to avoid the confusion and make fast progress.