Oh and by the way, there are a lot socialist democracies in the world where the people seem to live happy productive lives.... ask any Swede or Canadian you might know.
Because of Orwellian muddying of definitions, there are lots of people who don't know that there is a difference between:
-- Democratic socialism. A subset of socialism (government ownership and control of production, no private companies, no open markets, no capitalism), and
-- Social democracy. Capitalist, with open markets and private ownership of companies, with higher taxes and welfare.
Socialist: North Korea, Venezuela, Cuba. (Or democratic socialist if they have elections.)
Not socialist: Sweden, Canada. They are capitalist, with open markets and private ownership of companies. Their governments don't own and control all the steel mills, shoe factories, farms, etc. The largest political party in Sweden is called the "Swedish Social Democratic Party". They are market economies with higher taxes to fund welfare.
Same for other Nordic countries, such as Denmark. "In 2015, Danish Prime Minister Lars Løkke Rasmussen told Harvard’s Kennedy School of Government, “I know that some people in the U.S. associate the Nordic model with some sort of socialism. Therefore, I would like to make one thing clear: Denmark is far from a socialist planned economy. Denmark is a market economy.””
There are certainly some people in favor of actual socialism (despite its history of horrendous failure and human tragedy). I suspect that there are lots more people who think they are in favor of socialism, but they are in fact in favor of nearly the opposite: social democracy (market economies with higher taxes and more welfare).